Just lost eight stone so look bigger in those pics, and still losing - awfully late 40's (and growing old disgracefully) ECCENTRIC, do my own thaing kinda BBW (still)- needs witty fun black male. I'm a good cook, love movies, music and my home. I like dreadlocks and bald but sense of humour is a must. Oh and its fairly important that you like animals. I foster cats for a national charity and am basically an animal person - am rather into wildlife. YOU dont have to be an animal tho....!!
oh and I am NOT big and TALL - Im bbw and a bit of a shortass....at five foot three. (in heels!) I am not JUST looking for a deep and meaningful, but if it comes along I dont mind, but am certainly not looking for a casual liaison. I really want someone to hang out with, have some kind of relationship with - more than anything someone who is fun/funny/witty and bubbly. It doesn't HAVE to have a label particularly and we don't need to be joined at the hip either.

Picnic in the park, country pub for lunch, Bag of chips on the promenade - somewhere that we can talk, get to know one another and generally hang out, see if there is any chemistry. Am equally happy to find a good friend if the chemistry isn't all fireworks to start. Sometimes its better that way for a friend to turn into something more, so not particularly in a hurry but have nice life and want someone to share some of it with and enhance it. If you see yourself as "The Boss", quit now as I am not an employee. Nor am I your "mommy" type either.....More than anything want someone witty who can make me laugh. Not student type, MUST Drive, MUST have decent job (i.e. not part time security guard or washer up in MacDonalds), MUST love animals and bigger women (I am NEVER gonna be a size 12!!)and finally MUST be witty/funny.