I don't want one night stands. I am ultimately looking for a good marriage. I am not interested in getting close physically until the time is right, but you must be a good hugger. My relationship with God comes first in my life, and must be important to you if you want to be in a relationship with me. I can't stand flaky people who don't communicate, initiate, or don't show up to scheduled dates. If you want a relationship with me, you must take initiative. I am a busy, passionate person and don't have time for people who can't respect my time. Either make some effort and see something wonderful come out of it, or just don't bother. I can't have long dates, or drive way out of my way for you. You must enjoy long walks, movies, shooting hoops, music and instruments, and the occasional video game. You must be supportive of my creative endeavors including but not limited to: music, art, and writing. You must be willing to communicate via email and MSN. Phone calls and texts are good, but I won't have anyone that doesn’t know how to use a computer. No smokers, no heavy drinkers. It would never work. Must be in good shape, between 5'6" - 5'9", blond or brunette. Bonus if you are interested in Japan. Even better if you speak Japanese. Don't contact me unless you're serious. Seriously.

I'll meet you for coffee, bust your balls, and leave way too soon. I'll give you the gift of missing me.