| | I am separated, soon to be divorced. I know this is a "dating" website but I'm really just interested in friendship first...I value honesty, kindness ,and integrity. Some day I'd like to find a true partner in life...but right now I want friends and laughter:) Please don't even contact me if "friends" to you means one night stands...and whatever!? I know things have changed since the last time I was dating but I am sooo not interested in that. My body doesn't go where my heart is not!
PS still new to this site but I noticed that pics are important to most people (and rightly so for obvious reasons) but I live in a very small place so I'd prefer to chat for a bit and send one later privately if we get to that:)
been reading (and reading...lol) profiles so I'll include some more details that I've learned from others:
I work with kids and have my own...they are older (teens) I love my job and in spite of the fact my kids ARE teens I love being a mother:)
I am just on the tail end of ending a 15 year marriage...fairly equitable, tame as a divorce can be. I don't hate him (most of the time) and I think I've come out the other end with a minimal amount of bitterness. I'm smart enough to know that will only hurt me:) (So don't worry I'm not a male hater/basher! lol )
OH I've read alot of profiles that talk about cheating?!...I don't cheat...and have no respect for people who do! I was in a miserable marriage and remained faithful...call it quits and move on...but stay faithful while you are there. Thats what I think anyway *shrug*
I go to church on Sundays...Baptist right now (I've been other places...it's where I call home) I don't call myself "religious" but my faith is the filter thru which I approach life:) It makes me who I am.
I like to make a friend and keep them...had friends since grade 7 ( we moved around too much before that) I'm very loyal
just got my drivers licence last year...I'm finding my independence and like it!:) If you don't like a woman who can speak her mind...then you probably won't like me... I have a very quirky sense of humour!
I can be quiet or I might chat your ear off!lol
love the ocean but I've never surfed and I'm not much of a swimmer (can remain floating in a forward motion most of the time lol)
love walking thru hiking trails but I have a heights problem that I am challenging myself to overcome in baby steps (my legs just turn to jelly on a kitchen stool!)
I'm a very open person with people I trust...usually I trust until I have a reason not to.
I'm not much into motor bikes (I'd have to trust you Alot to get one one...but I did go for a 2 hour ride on a scooter once on the highway!lol) And I loved it after I got over the initial fear...so there might be hope for me afterall:)
I like my own company... I'm not afraid to be alone... humm...I'm patient (unless I get hungry...then I could be a a tazmanian devil! lol...just feed me and no one will get hurt!) I weight 3000lbs...just joking...about 104-107...ish...I'm not prone to weight fluctuations (don't watch my diet though I believe in healthy eating, worked in a health food store for a while, know alot about it, but I'm not a health guru...) I have blue eyes and long hair... Are you tired of reading yet??
I'm looking for a man to basically hang out with...I'm not opposed to finding someone special but I'm going to take my time:) Qualities I like in people are a good sense of humour... trustworthy... honest... kindhearted... affectionate... compassionate ...openminded... possitive... spiritual... deep thinkers...down to earth type people who just are who they are!:)
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