I'm just Cocoa...I think that's the best way to describe myself. I am a college grad working for an insurance company to save up money for grad school... But that's not really who I am, that's just what I do. I love doing things that are spontaneous and fun! I am always the life of the party... It's not a real party til I get there. I excel at small talk and obscure facts. Learning and music are my passions. I hate to be in a conversation where I don't have anything interesting to contribute, so I love talking to people and listening to their opinion on things. And I absolutely love holding long conversations with people that have passion. It's so easy nowadays to run into people that aren't passionate about anything. I mean they don't have a favorite band or food or game or sport...if you ask me, that's not living at all. I can stay up and debate and discuss ideas all night. I do love a good party, but I am perfectly content in a smaller setting just having a glass of wine (or two) and talking to someone who genuinely has something to say.
I will be starting my masters in musical therapy next year (YAY!!!) I love music. It's universal and pure... It can change your mood... Even make you a whole different person. There's a purity and truth in music that you can't really explain to someone who doesn't appreciate it(in all it's forms)Good or bad, it's universal. That's why I love it!!
I'm looking for a guy who likes intelligent conversations about his interests, but doesn't mind the fact that I can be really silly sometimes. Hopefully we'll have something in common, but sometimes it's more fun if we don't agree on EVERYTHING!!! I am opinionated, but not close minded...and I expect the same thing from anyone I hold a conversation with. I'll warn you though, if you're the kind of guy who either doesn't have anything interesting to contribute to the conversation or has to be always right...don't even bother. :)

Probably something like go bowling or see a band or play pool. I'm pretty open when it comes to that sort of thing...depends on what he's into, but definitely somewhere where we hold a conversation so we can get to know each other better. I'm pretty spontaneous though, so there's really no telling!! ;)

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