I stand 5'11 and weight a very comfortable 225 lbs. I have black hair and brown eyes. I have come to realize that in life there are keys to joy and happiness and that sweating the small things in life grow to larger uncontrollable problems. I am physically and emotional stable. I believe that we are not here on this earth long enough to allow circumstances to interfer with the business of living. Yesterday is history; tomorrow is a mystery, but Today is a gift..... that's why it's called the PRESENT.

I UNDERSTAND THAT THESE SITES ARE TRADITIONALLY FOR ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES, BUT SOMETIMES CIRCUMSTANCES ALLOW TWO PEOPLE WITH THE SAME GOALS TO COME TOGETHER. I HAVE NOTICED THAT MANY ARE LOOKING FOR SPECIFIC QUALITIES THAT AVERAGE PEOPLE CANNOT POSSIBLY LIVE UP TO. THE BASIC THINGS LIKE TRUTH, HONESTY, RESPECT ARE QUALITIES THAT SHOULD BE PRESENT WITH BOTH PEOPLE. BUT WHEN WE PICK AND SPECIFY UNATAINABLE ASPECTS WE LIMIT OUR RADIUS. IT IS MY HUMBLE OPINION THAT WHEN TWO PEOPLE DISCOVER EACH OTHER AND TRULY LIKE AND APPRECIATE EACH OTHER THEY WILL TRY TO PLEASE THE OTHER BY GETTING RID OF THOSE QUALITIES THAT ARE UNAPPRECIATED BY THE OTHER. THINGS LIKE SMOKING, JUST AS AN EXAMPLE. LIFE IS MUCH TOO SHORT AND SO MANY OF US HAVE BEEN LEAD TO THINK AND BELIEVE THAT HAPPINESS IS A DESTINATION....... IT'S NOT, IT'S THE JOURNEY.

Find a nice cool public place, (i.e.; coffee house, park, mall), and see if we can have an intelligent conversation that we both appreciate and respect... from there we can pretty much gage the direction that we are headed, weather that is in the opposit direction, or in the same direction.