Our lives are full - nurturing and supporting our families, enjoying the challenges of careers, being engaged enough to let someone in during a traffic jam and marveling at the freedoms we've earned by making it sane to this chapter in our lives.

What's missing for me is that someone special to share it with.

Remember what it was like to get those butterflies and the silly grin when you think of that special someone, and the absolute certainty that you sound like a blubbering idiot when you talk to them? That person who you *know* will get the thing that anyone else would think is meaningless. The person who makes you laugh, who challenges you, who inspires you to be a better you? The safe place to land, the one who is honest above all else?

Are you at the place where you understand the balance between the physical, emotional and spiritual? I think of "playmate" but not in the purely physical and not short term. Play encompasses so many things, probably many I've yet to discover.

So, if you have killer eyes, can kiss, smile and laugh at the same time, have strong arms, love the mental thrill as much as the physical, don't mind a woman with two left feet and want to be treasured....drop me a line.

Oh! And i don't share chocolate or pillows. Yup, I'm selfish that way. *grin*

jae

First dates are easy and simple. Second dates are where creativity is a must.

Age between 35 and 49