Hello, My name is Nikki. I am a single mother of two boys one of which lives with me. I am very independent and know what I want in life. I am a person who strongly believes that communication is the key to a great relationship. I hate liars and do not know why people bother to lie when adventually they will be found out. I also believe that a couple that plays together stays together. Other then that I do drink on occassion just not a drunk and I am not looking for one either. My other thing is if you do drugs any kind what so ever then do not bother emailing me. I have a child I need to teach rigth from wrong. I love to write and have a few pen pals. I have also had some of my things published that I have written. I am not the girley girl who needs to wear a whole lot of make up. I can be ready to go out in under fifteen minutes and take very good care of my self and my son. My friends all say I am kind hearted and would do anything for the people I am closest to. I call it just being me. I am very honest, straight forward, caring, and extremely passionate. The one thing I know I am looking for and will not settle on is I want a man who can say what he means and means what he says, don't make me any promises espeically if you are not capable of keeping them. He has to be strong willed and strong at heart. He must be open to trying new things, know what he wants in life and NOT be affraid to go after it.

I think that I could not descibe my first date here. It is kind of hard to pick something when you do not know who you will be going on a date with. On dates I like to pack a picnic lunch that I made, fill the tank drive to we find a waterfall and stop and eat. I also like to go dancing and to go bowling. There are way to many things to do on a first date, guess you have to prove you are worth going on one with before we decide what to do.