***Updated 9/8/09 Settled in the Lehigh Valley Area 2 years ago . Raised in Manhattan and Northern New Jersey and half German and Norwegian. Looking to make friends, date and one day find my soul mate. I like comedy, hanging out listening to music, seeing movies(comedy, love stories). Like to watch various sports, just not all day long. Start a fire, have a drink and cuddle. I'm a jean and sneakers kinda of gal,wavy thick hair that's past my shoulders, blue eyes. Experience new things that I haven't done due to 18 year marriage. You having kids is great as I love kids and how you treat your kids shows what kind of man you are. Mine live with their dad now, so I'm free as a bird so to speak.

I'm a down to earth gal who looking to be equal to a partner and not looking for someone to take over as a dad, they have one and now all live with him. Looking for someone to talk, laugh and cry with. I am shy at first but once I get to know you, I am not shy at all.

The picture about 18 months old and I've lost 50 lbs so far.

Casual drink/dinner/lunch, drive where we can spend time talking and not worrying that we have to yell.