Writing this is a little like ordering off a menu at a restaurant, ‘I’ll take a double sense of humor and hold the drama, and please put the issues on the side so they can be dealt with one at a time and, can you bring that with a really bright smile’?

I guess not, life is not like that. We all have a sense of humor and a great smile and we all have crosses to bear. Will you know if I am Mr. Right from what I write here? Actually, I hope not. I would like to think there is more to me then this description can say or a picture can tell.

I love to create and have fun times. To laugh at the funny thing that happened today or stop and notice the sound of the waves as they hit the shore. These things happen as a friendship builds and a friendship builds as we become comfortable with each other. All of this can only happen if we are each ready, we choose to allow it with the right person.

Alright so you may still want the facts and numbers – OK. I work in NYC, for a large bank. I manage an area that provides outsourcing of operational processing for derivative products. All that means is that when I am not in the office, the focus is on family, friends and renewing my spirit. Other facts are that I am a divorced and I have 3 beautiful daughters, my oldest just graduated the University of Florida and is returning their to work on her Masters, my middle daughter will be a Senior in High School in the Fall and, my youngest just turned 8 years old.

Can we get back to fun now? If any or all of this interests you, go ahead and say Hello and I hope to meet you. - Tom

I am open, it can be anything from meeting over a cup of coffee at the local Starbucks to taking a dance lesson together, the inportant thing is that we end the first date by both of us looking forward to the second date.