I want to find a man who will become a close & special part of my life. Someone committed to me, and me to him. Someone to depend on, be with, share with, and love. But that doesn't happen instantly, as we all should know by now. A few dates does not make a relationship. Trust, emotions and love all take time to build. With that said, it's obvious that every beginning starts out casual. Going out, having fun, not expecting anything. Seeing what happens. If it's meant to be, something will come of it; but you don't know until you try.

I work a 50-hour a week job, have a daughter completing her senior year of high school, and do a lot for my aging parents. My days can get rather hectic, and I could use a diversion. I'm missing that adult-social part of my life.

No, I won't meet you at a hotel. We're adults (hopefully), and we know that intimacy is going to come into the picture if there's a strong attraction. But that's NOT all I'm about. If you want a bootycall, there's specific sites for that. I want the old-fashioned stuff...come & pick me up. Hold the door for me. Bring me a flower (I don't care if you buy it at WalMart, LOL)

I want a hardworking, honest, dependable man to take me out, show me a good time, relax with me, talk to me, spend time with me, laugh with me, and yes, even share intimate, personal evenings. Let's go to a movie. Take me out to dinner & share good conversation. Watch a Steeler football game with me, at home or out. Let's take a walk & hold hands. Every now & then it's nice to get dressed up & see a show. I enjoy a fun evening out with a bunch of friends sharing a few drinks, laughs, and maybe playing darts or pool. I desire a man who can be tender, affectionate, and a gentleman in public and a "bad boy" behind closed doors. I'm instantly attracted to tall men with a stocky build. Goatees and/or tattoos a plus. We all have a "type", but of course it all comes down to your personality, attitude, and the way you treat other people that make one desirable and attractive. I care NOT how much money you make, if you own your own house, or how many vehicles you have in your driveway. It's not the material things that matter, it's the quality of time spent with others that count.

I have myself listed as a few extra pounds because I don't consider myself a BBW. Call me what you want - fat, plump, chunky, chubby, whatever. I call myself full-figured. Yes, I need to lose some weight, and I will, in my own time. I do it for ME, not for anyone else. You can get your arms around me, I guarantee it. LOL If you're looking for that Playboy centerfold body, and can't believe that a gal that's not a size 6 can't be sexy, then move on. You're superficial & not the kind of man I want to be with. Sorry if that sounds harsh. I am a person with a caring heart, and a lot to offer, if just given the chance. I am told I am attractive, and I take pride in my appearance. I always try to look nice when I go out. I color my hair with deep reddish tones and have 4 tattoos (tiger related). I love to make people laugh & am told I have a great sense of humor. I can be ornery at times, but know when to be a lady.

I write erotic stories and share them online, so if that sort of thing bothers you, then move on. If you're questioning the motive of my profile photos, here's my explanation: It's funny that I see so many pics of men shirtless or standing in a towel, and that's supposedly acceptable, but when a woman poses a little seductively or shows some cleavage, it's assumed she's "easy". There's a BIG difference between dressing and feeling sexy as opposed to being just plain trashy. My pics simply show my playful side.

Please be within a reasonable distance to me; I prefer someone local. I also ask that you not be married or separated. If you want to know anything else, just ask. I'm an open book and have nothing to hide.

**PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE EITHER ON YOUR PROFILE, OR PRIVATE IMAGES YOU CAN SEND. I HAVE MINE UP, IT'S ONLY FAIR I SEE YOU TOO**

It differs with each person. Talk about your interests & then decide and go from there...

Male
Age between 30 and 53
Live in United States
Live within 75 miles.
Must not be married