For those who are truly serious about wanting to find someone to spend their lives with ,give people an actual chance and really get to know them, because if you are just meeting them for 30 seconds, or looking at a picture and writing them off if you don't feel the chemistry right away you are only hurting your own chances to find happiness. Yes attraction and chemistry is important , but sometimes it doesn't happen right away.


Why do I stay on here?? Well if you haven't already discovered the forums on here then let me invite you to check them out. I am on many forum sites all over the internet and the forums on Plenty of Fish are by far the best.


It's not easy to find love anywhere , it's even harder on dating sites, but trust me it can happen.I am proof of that.Don't give up looking.


Oh and by the way I will talk to anyone , male or female, I don't really care. They just don't give you the option of talk/email with both genders.