Is it Cupid that I'm supposed to be contacting...to help me find a man's loving, romantic, passionate heart...so Cupid where are you hiding so I may put in my request...lol...& he gets points if he's clean shaven...& double points if he has an accent...I melt for these & I totally evaporate if he's in a suit & tie!!!

Are you the one...the one that blends into my life...that I complement your world & you enhance mine...neither controlling...both just molding together as one...are you the man in the song...I Am That Man - Brooks & Dunn? I apologize for the honest, upfront manner in which I completed my profile...& remember that you are reading something that does not reflect any tone, excitement, colour or flavour in the personality of the person who wrote it...little ol' MOI!

Yes, I've been told I have a good gene pool...'cause I don't look my age (& no surgery done - ALL naturally acquired)...nor act it (age is just a number...RIGHT), have too much energy (vibrant & very active)...PLUS too many pheromones for my own good...oh, well someone had to get it...lucky me!

Gentlemen...and you know if you fit into this category..."You are still in the POF People Candy Store mode! and having too much success in over indulging in the free sample policy."...I'll have one of those and two of those and one of those!!! So please take note that I don't consider myself a 'sample' but more like a unique, one of a kind, they broke the mould after me type of lady!

I'm actually looking for a long term 'man' (starting point is obviously at the dating/friends stage)...who is AVAILABLE NOW...emotionally, mentally & otherwise...and is MAN enough AND confident enough to accept & appreciate this woman for who she is.

Beware I'm an animal lover and they seem to love me. Whether the animal has 2 or 4 legs...I've been labelled gregarious (with either species)...can't help it...it's just me. I like being treated like a lady but love to know my guy has a bit of a bad boy streak...makes life more colourful & interesting & appealing. I'm looking for the man that...when meeting a lady, can tell the difference from lust & chemistry!

Most definitely, I am spontaneous & appreciative of any surprises, especially if they involve milk chocolates (chewy caramels my fav), flowers, travel & emotions. But I also appreciate & respect the planned, scheduled parts of everyday life...(like working on a relationship)...because without them you have everyday total confusion. Did I mention I like to smile, giggle, laugh, meow, Mmmmmmm...& purr!

Fishing for "happiness" - giving & getting. Must have a sense of humour...someone with a sassy, cheeky, touch of sarcastic humour to match or enhance mine would be a bonus, I do like a good giggle. I'm hard working, focused and possess a goal...an inner spirit to find that special someone who finds me just as intriguing, unique and special.

Can you handle a sassy yet classy lady who's wearing a little black dress with stiletto heels & leans across a candlelit dinner table whispering things only for you to hear, then accompanies you to a theatre or concert yet she is able to get down to earth in jeans & a T-shirt & enjoy recreational camping, outdoor sports and NATURE at it's best with you.

Are you a man who can appreciate a cheeky, upfront woman who is a confident lady with an equally confident personality...who can find "the funny" in most things...even finding the funny in the negative things and turn them into positives. Very adaptable in most instances.

If you are able to communicate equitably (& that doesn't mean...if you are able to lie your way through a conversation...capable of listening & being listened to, enjoy doing things, can keep up with my HIGH energy level - active (she's busy finding the fun in life...'cause she likes doing things), having giggles but willing & able to snuggle & cuddle together over a glass/bottle of wine. I'm willing & able to converse on all topics...it's just in the timing...some are easier discussed when we know each other better...& shows that you will treat me like a lady & that you also respect me as one! Did I mention I enjoy being pursued...appreciate the man confident enough to correspond or make a move to get to know each other better.

I hope to find that sensitive, spoiling, pampering, respectful & romantic gentleman who is confident within himself and has placed in storage most previous relationship baggage. Yet, is not intimidated by and able to be my man for this strong, independent woman...and be her shoulder when she wants or needs to lean upon you. Only contact me please, if you are mature, stable emotionally & financially.

If you want to know something...please ask me...I don't bite...besides it's called nibbling...an ear lobe here...a neck there! And, gentleman please do your 'mama' proud...how to treat a lady & manners learned...acknowledge & respond to her when you have been messaged or fav'd (favorites)! Is this site 'tainting me'...or are there really that many 'ill-mannered, rude men' on replying & answering e-mail questions??!!

Please HAVE A PICTURE if you wish a response (no pic - no response)...as it is part of the chemistry factor! I don't accumulate fav's I purge them on a regular basis. I do attempt to reply to all who contact me...sooner rather than later.

I prefer to do other than 'the coffee thingy'...if you don't mind!

I'd suggest meeting over libations & possibly appetizers...then, maybe follow this with a walk on the beach or a stroll anywhere especially when it’s snowing...OR

I might be a liberated lady but I will never change my outlook or see anything wrong with the classic scenario...good conversation while taking a lady for libations and a candle lit dinner...OR

A quaint picnic in a park with you, nature and if you have a dog(s) let's go walkies after...no pressure, no commitments and hopefully no regrets after the adventure...just hopes, wishes and dreams...& who knows...maybe the start of a future...together!