Some people talk like they want an open relationship, one that is not controlling, because they have been in a controlling relationship in the past. That is all good however a lot of people who say that want to have the openess on their own terms and they forget to take in account of the other partner's internal needs and externally make the decision of those needs for them...doesn't that ring a little odd when you think about it?...sounds a little controlling, doesn't it?

First of all I want to say something that need to apply to all me included:
Strive for peace and harmony in your life...this should be first and formost..do not tread upon others as no good can come from it..be true to others and hopefully they will be true to you...take care of your children as you brought them here on this earth and they had no choice in the start they were given...let your morals from the heart transend those given solely in religion (in other words do not let religion blind who you are...otherwise we would all be identical to one another defeating our reason for 'being' here)...never give up hope as you never know what lies around the corner...thank you for reading this.


I blaze my own path. I am not a leader nor am I a follower. I come from a farm background and as a result very stocky in build. My background has also led me to be a caretaker as I was taught the importance of responsibility. I enjoy an adventure whenever time allows. I just came back from a cruise in the Bahamas Jan 08......It was nice to see a bit more of the world, and some of the creatures within that environment. The experience on the boat was amazing as well! Back in 05:(I recently came back from Costa Rica as part of my work in Tropical Ecology. Nothing like wandering around in a rainforest for hours, climbing mountains, and viewing an active volcano. After Costa Rica I spent time in Chicago and found out that big city life isn't so bad either. I am an adaptable person who is capable of facing what ever comes along.)

I am looking for the right gal to grab my attention, send me an e-mail if you want to be friends......or maybe a bit more. My life is going through a transformation that will allow me greater freedom sometime soon. I recently recieved my masters in science and am now working on my path to being a journeyman Steamfitter. I really like those with a sound mind and a good heart

The world is so amazing if we take the time to enjoy it. All people in this world are special....too bad too many of us fail to see it.

I am the silent type so sometimes it takes a little prodding to get me to respond to e-mails.

Pics:
Volcano is Aranal.
Caoti Mundi is the animal

Depends on the lady and whatever situation that occurs, I am pretty adaptable. To limit what one would call a date is missing out on too much, the important thing is to have fun.