Hello, thanks for stopping to visit my page! Like some of the others on here, I joined this site because I am a busy professional who doesn't find myself having a lot of time to meet people since work and other involvements keep me fairly busy. You may be thinking...well, "how is she going to have time to date or hangout"? Please know that I will definitely make time for someone special when I meet him!!

I am outgoing, adventerous, friendly, upbeat, smart, witty, serious, focused, passionate, compassionate, supportive and helpful. I'd consider myself a little "nerdy", fun-loving, and a good communicator. I enjoy a good conversation that is mentally stimulating! I "keep it real", tell the truth, I'm encouraging, positive, loyal, honest, sincere, and I'll have your back in bad times and in good.

My current state in life is that I feel happy, fulfilled, and excited about the future! One desire I have is to spend time with a special, quality person with whom I can enjoy the blessings of life. It would be great if our time together would evolve into a committed healthy, mutually beneficial relationship. I am single, unattached, no children. Not looking to get married right away (unless I receive an offer I just can't refuse-LOL)! I'm not looking to be rescued (neither should you by the way) and am not carrying any baggage from my past relationships.

I am a lil old fashioned and believe that a lady should be treated like a lady and believe that chivalry is alive and well! I'm looking for a man with some swagger, some confidence (not arrogant/cocky) but a man (of any race or ethnicity) who knows who he is, appreciates where he's been and is optimistic about where he is going.

I am a committed Christian and would like to meet someone of like faith. I'm not looking for perfection, because I'm not perfect. I am seeking someone in perfect pursuit of Christ! I'm a very down to earth "real" person and am seeking the same. I desire a Christian Man who is committed to growing in his faith, has good morals, and who lives his life on solid principles. I am not looking for someone who is "religious" acting.....I'm simply looking for a faith-filled Christian man who has a REAL relationship with God through Christ Jesus!

If we "click" we can eventually decide the "what's next"......let's discuss that when its time...okay?

Please note: I am ultimately looking for a long-term relationship so if you are in a season of soaring wild oats,"pimping" or being a player,... best wishes with that. If you are married, separated, have a quasi-girlfriend or significant other, have a crazy stalking ex or any other oddly defined relationship....handle that. I do not believe you can give yourself fully to multiple people and I don't want just part of a man so....be with who you are with until you are not with them any more. Once you have resolved your previous relationship(s), have gotten your emotions and head straight...then holla at a sistah. I deserve your best because I will give you mine.

If you are dishonest and have misrepresented yourself on your profile in ANY way, I am not interested in getting to know you. I have been upfront and honest on mine and expect the same. If you can't tell the truth on a profile to people who don't even know you....hmmm makes you wonder???--You may have a problem with consistently telling the truth. Plus, it will get things started off on a bad note between us and then there will be disappoinment and hurt and drama...which, I'm trying to avoid like the rest of the people on here. Hey, I'm trying to help keep you honest!

Go ahead, don't be shy--take a chance and mail me. I will respond to all messages. I won't waste your time or play games with you. If nothing else, you might make a good friend.

Even if you just want to tell me what a beautiful smile I have, I accept nice compliments too! Best wishes to you and everyone else on here!

Hmmmm.....I don't really know! I think it may depend on the weather or our mood (I can do simple or extravagant). We can decide together or you can surprise me. I like to be outside when the sun is shining or when it is nice....this really makes me happy! I'm a midwestern native so I also like the brisk air and the turning leaves of the fall!

I like trying new things so, I'm flexible and open to consider creative things as long as it doesn't involve a high risk of severe physical injury or death....lol! Whatever it might be, it should be STRESS FREE, fun, and be in an environment where we can be ourselves, be relaxed, talk, and get know more about each other!