Thanks for visiting my profile.

Please, do not read my profile
UNLESS you are looking for a man
who is emotionally balanced, will
love, respect, acknowledge, honor,
laugh (with you), encourage and
thoroughly love YOU. He's not
perfect, but is some amazing
lady's dream man.

This is an interesting place (POF).

Its funny how our thought processes
and emotions engage when you are here
looking for the love that you want
and deserve to have.

I approach it with the thoughts,
"I'm here to find that one and
only, amazing lady that I can
look at every morning, drive down
the road with, walk hand in hand
with, experience God and spirituality
with, be passionate with, engage
in conversation with, see the world
with, support, encourage and deeply
love, while all the time feeling
this delight in my soul."

Its funny also that we all
wonder, "Is this person as amazing
as I perceive them to be or is it
my wishful/hopeful thinking that
they are?"

I don't know how to answer that,
but, I do know what to do about
it. The one thing I know to do
about it is, 'Be exactly who I am
in word, in action and in life.'

In other words, 'this is me.
No more (not to say that I can't
grow inwardly, spiritually and
become more). Certainly, no less.

To save you and I time, let me
say up front, we won't be a match
if.......

- You are bitter towards men because
of the last one (or several 'ones')
you've been in love with
- You love drama (I've lived too long for
that and don't need it; my life is
exciting enough without a bunch of
negative drama)
- You are wounded, have stereo-typed men
as users, abusers or worse and are looking to
be victimized by a man
- You've experienced multiple relationship
failures and aren't willing to see the
common denominator in all of them
- You are religiously judgmental, fault
finding and think you are perfect

We MIGHT be a match if......
- You live from a place of love for all
people
- You are looking for the exceptional
man who is 'the real deal' to be all
you've imagined and more
- You have chosen to mature and grow
inwardly
- You value wisdom, tolerance, happiness,
love, intelligence and the whole miracle
of an amazing man-woman relationship
- You aspire to live at your highest
potential
- You are genuinely humble, confident,
caring, positive, spiritual, passionate,
compassionate, giving


With that said......

I have a strong sense of who I am, where I'm going in life and what I want. I believe that we can have it all. I choose happiness, contentment and a positive, spiritual lifestyle. I know how to laugh until my side aches (and make you laugh until your side aches). I was a minister for 15 years and enjoy helping others to see their potential and uniqueness. I am not 'religious' in the sense of judging others, prejudice, intolerance, etc. I believe God is love and wants us to live our lives fully. I'm somewhere between Joel Osteen and Dr. Wayne Dyer in my view of spirituality and life. I am kind, considerate, giving, loving, romantic, passionate and fun! I've written 5 books and am completing my 6th one now. I also am a speaker and avid Internet marketer. I have other business endeavors and interests. If this resonates with you, I might very well be THE PERFECT MAN (for you .) Thanks!

Oh, oh, oh. I LUV to play guitar. I LUV to play sweet love songs. AND,......I do sing, some. :)

Be who I am and relish the moment.