What is it that stirs your soul? Sophisticated
yet humble. Manly yet sensitive. Assertive yet
amazingly nurturing. Wise yet seemingly, virtuously naive.
Pure yet worldly. Strong yet subtle. Exotically spiritual.
Curiously adventurous. Secure while yearning.

So what is that one special attribute that makes
one stand out among others? Makes you wonder. Or
is it the 'many unique character traits' that
causes your intuition to tell you that 'this one
is the one I've imagined.'

What is destined love? Something you seek. Something that
is seeking you? Perhaps. How will you know?

Your heart is........oh, about me?

How about a nurturing male?

A nurturing male is a guy who will listen to a person's troubles and will try to help them out. Not only will he, he in fact enjoys doing this, and he will seek out people in need of his advice. His advice is good. He thinks things through, and he's good enough at understanding character that he can tailor his guidance to any given personality type.

A nurturing male is good with children. He maintains discipline, but he can do it while still making the child feel good about him or herself. Children love to be around him. He's the kind of guy who will babysit for you, and your kids will cry when he leaves instead of when you do. He's the kind of person that can sit in a restaurant and make the kid at the table next to him laugh without ever saying a word.

A nurturing male will not force a woman to have sex with him. It's tough to get him to ask for sex because he wants his women to be comfortable enough with him that when it's time to take that step, they both know it by heart. He doesn't want to have sex with a woman who has a bad attitude. In fact, he won't do it. Even if she looks like a supermodel. Even if she IS a supermodel. He will and has often, walked away from such even when he knew that it could easily happen.

A clue is, he wants to feel great about you AFTER he has made passionate love to you; not just BEFORE. If he made passionate love to you in the morning, he wants to spend the rest of the day with you. If it happened at night, he relishes taking you to breakfast or even better, cooking breakfast for you. He certainly won't oppose you cooking breakfast either. He just wants to be with you.

Since a nurturing male is good at gauging personalities, he can fit in with most any group. However, he often chooses not to, distancing himself from people who are less understanding of human nature than he is. He doesn't enjoy vandalism, hazing, drinking to excess, bragging, pretension or playing extremely loud music. He hangs out with people who's behavior complements his tendency to worry about the comfort of others over his own.

A nurturing male is always easy to talk to, and due to his very open, honest nature, he makes you feel comfortable talking to him very quickly. He is usually known by everyone in places that he has frequented at least 3 times. He makes connections so easily that he has likely met and gotten close to celebrities or highly successful and even wealthy people. Even still, the seemingly less important people feel important around him. He makes them feel that way. However, he never uses relationships for his own benefit.

A nurturing male is the kind of guy who women love to fantasize about. When they actually meet him, they tell him they'd rather just be friends. But in fact, they really want to be closer to him. They fear the relationship going awry because they really need and want him around. So many men in their lives had sex with them and then, disappeared. If he is looking for a long term relationship and is told, 'let's just be friends', he will take that at face value and be your friend and look elsewhere for love interests.

He's not a man who ever looks for a fight, but he is one who can fiercely protect a woman, a child, an elderly person, a family member or himself. His attitude is positive and his sense of humor is well developed. He's comfortable with himself and with almost anyone else.

His worst characteristics are, he doesn't engage in arguments, he doesn't engage in verbal fights. He doesn't give a rats ass about what most people think about politics. He's not highly opinionated about things that he deems to be worthless and inconsequential issues. He won't hang around you if you are a jealous, nit-picky, narcissistic, self-absorbed person. He'll listen and be polite if you want to unload 4 tons of emotional baggage on him, but don't expect him to ever be your lover or significant other. He's not going to fill his life with a bunch of unnecessary drama. He's too wise and too positive to do that. He's not at all your 'typical male'. He is quite untypical.

Intelligent conversation, depth of soul