So after doing the copy and paste profile for a few days … seeing how many people looked at my profile with just one picture on it and WOW! Not to say any of the those women actually sent me an email … proof that women as a whole need more sustenance then a man does perhaps?

Or that is my ultimate hope. To find someone with depth (as opposed to finding someone that is dense). But that is what I am looking for … what exactly are YOU looking for and why should you talk to me?

Good question …. Maybe because I talk to myself everyday and I need someone with a different opinion to join in?

I guess all I can tell you is about me, not too much as I try to at least be somewhat modest. First I have to mention my kids, which are a HUGE part of my life. I am proud of them all (and if you are thinking I have a baseball team amount .. the actual number is 3). I’m a little biased.. but they are all amazing. Even my boy who is now a teenager, makes me realize .. I don’t have the patience for teenagers as much as when I was one J

I love a good conversation, believing that communication is a huge part of any good realationship, but then knowing when to shut up as well.

I like to read, to soak up knowledge. My youngest daughter calls me a ‘human dictionary’ .. though I think she means ‘encyclopaedia’, because my spelling can sometimes be way off. (thank goodness for spell check).

I give freely of myself; I know how to be a friend, a lover and a companion. Love giving and receiving affection. Showing the one I’m with the little gestures that make being a couple, so enjoyable and rewarding. I’ve learned that if you can make it thru the bad times together, the good times seem more worthwhile.

“He likened a long-term relationship to a garden. You spend a lot of time hoeing, grooming and nurturing it. You're not about to give all that up for a nice bouquet of flowers, which may look pretty, but that has no roots.”

You never know what you’ll see in some people’s profiles … when I first logged on I saw a guys profile that said “dislike women that only want to talk about sex’ … Must be rough to be that much of a Hunk, good thing I have NO worries about that LOL.

The first date is always about nerves and such… even if (ok we have talked for hours).. Established an Emotional ‘Chemistry’ .. and need to see if that carries over to “Physical’ chemistry as well. So why not do what has already made you want to be with that person. (besides THAT) find a beautiful place to sit and talk. A nice meal, with talk. And if I get lucky an amazing kiss that leads me wanting more. Because a kiss can say SO much.

HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY?
(Written by kids)

You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like, if you like sports, she should like it that you like sports, and she should keep the chips and dip coming.
-- Alan, age 10

No person really decides before they grow up who they're going to marry. God decides it all way before, and you get to find out later who you're stuck with.
-- Kristen, age 10

WHAT IS THE RIGHT AGE TO GET MARRIED?
Twenty-three is the best age because you know the person FOREVER by then..
-- Camille, age 10

HOW CAN A STRANGER TELL IF TWO PEOPLE ARE MARRIED?
You might have to guess, based on whether they seem to be yelling at the same kids.
-- Derrick, age 8

WHAT DO YOU THINK YOUR MOM AND DAD HAVE IN COMMON?
Both don't want any more kids.
-- Lori, age 8

WHAT DO MOST PEOPLE DO ON A DATE?
Dates are for having fun, and people should use them to get to know each other. Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough.
-- Lynnette, age 8 (isn't she a treasure)

On the first date, they just tell each other lies and that usually gets them interested enough to go for a second date.
-- Martin, age 10

WHAT WOULD YOU DO ON A FIRST DATE THAT WAS TURNING SOUR?
I'd run home and play dead. The next day I would call all the newspapers and make sure they wrote about me in all the dead columns.
-- Craig, age 9

WHEN IS IT OKAY TO KISS SOMEONE?
When they're rich.
-- Pam, age 7

The law says you have to be eighteen, so I wouldn't want to mess with that.
-- Curt, age 7

The rule goes like this: If you kiss someone, then you should marry them and have kids with them. It's the right thing to do.
-- Howard, age 8

IS IT BETTER TO BE SINGLE OR MARRIED?
It's better for girls to be single but not for boys. Boys need someone to clean up after them.
-- Anita, age 9 (bless you child)

HOW WOULD THE WORLD BE DIFFERENT IF PEOPLE DIDN'T GET MARRIED?
There sure would be a lot of kids to explain, wouldn't there?
-- Kelvin, age 8

And the #1 Favorite is........
HOW WOULD YOU MAKE A MARRIAGE WORK?
Tell your wife that she looks pretty, even if she looks like a truck hit her.
-- Ricky, age 1