I love people who understands humor and enjoys laughing, but I totally dislike people who use humor as a tool to put people down. But, please do not think humor is a substitute for getting to know someone! I feel I am still a work in progress, learning everyday, and I would love to find the right person who feels he still has things to learn also! A man who shares his real thoughts and feelings (without putting the other person down) melts me, and if he knows how to hang in there when things aren't going his way, omg marry me! hahaha (humor, remember?) I enjoy alot of things in life, but I am not into playing sports, or heavily into watching them although I will be seen once in a while at a sporting event. I am not obese, but I am what I consider round (don't let my kids hear me say that!) If you are wanting a slim, athletic type, then let's not waste each other's time. I actually have no preference when it comes to men, besides truthful, sharing, easy going, and who clicks with me. Ya know we have to click! If you like music (almost any kind)blues, rock, oldies, some jazz, and I can handle some country sometimes, then there is a start. Festivals are fun, garage sales are fun, dinner is good (we all eat), and movies can be fun. If you can handle chick flicks, then you get bonus points! Mysteries, some action movies, humorous (but not 3 stooges type)gets my vote. If you aren't comotose right now, lets talk! Psssssssssssssst - have you read the secret?

First dates should be kept simple, so that both parties reserve the right to runnnnn. Actually, a first date should be like a toe in the water, to really judge the temperature. Let's go for coffee, and if we seem to click, we can go from there.