UPDATE : Not looking - with a new partner ;0)

Am seeking lady partner for getting out & about & socialising. Fit , active energetic & complete with motorbike ( CBR600) ..... Single again after a very long marriage with two grown up boys ( 17 & 21). Loving romantic & sensitive. Very into sports right now - squash waterskiing running etc , as well as fundraising for local charities etc.. Life is way too short - lets travel, be very silly & hug each other endlessly on the sofa.. I have very wide interests and enjoy socialising greatly.

I am now on a journey & rediscovering some basics about life and relationships. Life is too short to worry or delay - I very keen to move onwards & upwards & meet like minded lady friends.

I particularly enjoy the company of people who are very keen or well motivated about themselves and their work.

I can wash dishes, do a good massage, change lightbulbs, change car tyres, cut grass, and put up shelves. I also know a bit about fixing mobile phones & getting the internet to work..

In addition to my business I also lecture locally at Brockenhurst College and Ringwood school on Sales & Marketing & Small Business ; currently studying for a photographic qualification.


Very keen to meet early on for a meal as for me thats the sure fire way of finding out if there is any chemistry between us; you can email forever in my experience and not really understand each other.

Thats it really ! Not really looking for anything too intense; I am relaxed and easy going without a big agenda. I have learned that lasting relationships take a while to establish and develop over time.

In the longer term I am just looking for someone to spoil & so that I can indulge their every wish in every possible way. Someone to share dreams & achievements. Someone to hug & be with & to share life generally ; I miss the company of a lady soulmate and friend. Thanks for reading & if we don't email, flirt madly & fall in love then I hope that you find your new partner very soon - I am sure you will...

Update - Feb 09 In the last six months I jave waterskiied in Spain near Seville ( August 08), toured Croatia (Oct 08) and spent Christmas and New Year in Egypt diving in the Red Sea...

My ambition for 2009 - a complete marathon....

Normally a meal or a drink in a venue to suit both of us. Good long conversation & a bit of flirting to see how we get along & to see if there is any chemistry. Subsequent dates would include further opportunities to develop our relationship. Previous dates have included meals, live music ( rock and classical), theatre performances, waterski lessons, airplane flights, motorbike rides ,etc etc, you name it..the more unusual the better !!