I am a modest, charismatic, successful, funny, physically active, guy who loves music, sports & travel (great cities and beautiful beaches). I seek similar characteristics in a a woman. I have friendships and business relationships that have grown over time. I am proud of these, as they benefit both parties as they are long-term and good for both parties. My family and friends are very important to me.


I spend a lot of time at the beach, including the NJ shore during the summer and many beach vacations when the weather gets cold, so I prefer someone who enjoys the beach a great deal.

My hobbies/interests are business development, international commerce, economics, working out (5-6 times a week), basketball games, concert attendance, (..love and go to many live shows) my family, dog and friends. OK, the dog really is much higher up the list.

I am looking for someone who thrills me, that I really want to spend time with. For me, this means a woman with brains, wit, beauty, backbone, heart, personality, professional success and an active, healthy life style that shares some of the interests I noted. I list these attributes out, as I am looking for someone who is a good long term match and think it is hard to do the match without knowing the details.

Thanks for taking the time to read my profile. If you would like to know more, feel free to email me.


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I recently added this last section to make it a bit clearer who I would be interested in, and to save myself and others time.

I get a fair amount of email, perhaps due to my interests, job, etc. that is from women who while perhaps good from some man, are are not right for me. Due to my very active professional life, I am not in what I think is the more normal situation of guy(s) looking for a lot of women. I am looking for one who is a match for who/what interest(s) me. If you are looking for a father figure, prince to rescue you-sweep you off your feet, or source of funding for your life, I can understand your interest in me, as I could offer this/these to you. That said, I am not looking to be that guy. Contacting me with one of these goals in mind is almost certainly a waste of your time.

I am an adult, looking for an an adult, and equal. I really enjoy time with, bright, witty, strong, successful, beautiful, physically fit women. If you are scanning profiles, mine interests you and you think you offer what I am looking for; an established partner to build a life with, please contact me. If I have contacted you, thanks for taking the time to read my profile, and please reply back if interested. I very much look forward to hearing from you.

Good luck to everyone. I hope you find the right match for you.

From Bruce Springsteen's, "Thunder Road"
...Great lyrics on a relationship. If they hit you as they hit me, maybe we really have something in common. This does not mean if it does not strike you, we do not have something in common.

http://brucespringsteen.net/songs/ThunderRoad.html
You can hide 'neath your covers
And study your pain
Make crosses from your lovers
Throw roses in the rain
Waste your summer praying in vain
For a savior to rise from these streets
Well now I'm no hero
That's understood
All the redemption I can offer, girl
Is beneath this dirty hood
With a chance to make it good somehow
Hey what else can we do now
Except roll down the window
And let the wind blow back your hair
Well the night's busting open
These two lanes will take us anywhere
We got one last chance to make it real
To trade in these wings on some wheels
Climb in back
Heaven's waiting on down the tracks
Oh oh come take my hand
Riding out tonight to case the promised land
Oh oh Thunder Road, oh Thunder Road
oh Thunder Road
Lying out there like a killer in the sun
Hey I know it's late we can make it if we run
Oh Thunder Road, sit tight take hold
Thunder Road

You taking me to a very expensive dinner with great wine (Malbec preferred).

Really, the activity is secondary to learning about the other person; something very brief for the first date. It is the second date and how it ends that counts.