Make me laugh and we're halfway there. I am warm, friendly, passionate, compassionate and quite open-minded. Intuitive. Sensitive. Affectionate. Gentle yet strong. Good guy with an edge. Someone once said that I was the perfect blend of evolved male and card-carrying caveman. I thought that was pretty cool. I am sweet without the damn calories. Good kisser, no slobber. Real. Love to banter. I am fit and I workout regularly with Bikram Yoga, which means, I like it hot, sweaty and intense. (double entendre, free of charge!) I look much younger than my actual age. Non-religious. I spend lots of time writing and learning monologue material. As a special effects director and certified pyro-technician, I sometimes set stuntmen on fire. Most importantly, I put them out. I'm a straight man who actually loves modern dance. Musical tastes are quite eclectic. From James Brown to Led Zepplin. From Prince to Gypsy Kings. From Chopin to Chick Corea. I'm also a History Channel junkie. I realize we've gotta do this email dance for a while, but I actually prefer to talk on the phone. Person to person. Voice to voice.

Race is not important. Compatibility, attraction and mutual respect are paramount to me. I'd love a woman who is dynamic, creative, and feminine! A woman who's not afraid to be a woman. To connect. To be courageous and surrender. To be sensual, sexual and passionate. To be a grown-up woman. Little girls please stay home with the gold diggers. Just being real. LOL. Someone physically fit. What can be better than firm muscles and soft skin? Are you nurturing? Can you be nurtured? Do you reach out? Can you be reached? Do you give affection? Can you receive affection? Can you give love or only request it? Can you go the distance? Or only talk about it? Extra points IF you like football, basketball and boxing. And the occasional horror flick. But it's not necessary. You don't have to like what I like for me to like you.

We all have baggage of some kind. It goes with living and getting older. But please check the contents of your bag. The idea is to attract not repel.

Okay, sometimes I'm a bit cynical but I am still the constant optimist. The sky is the limit and the glass is always half full.

Chats over coffee or drinks. Ice-cream is always good too. (I'm a chocolate freak...especially for dark)
Lunch and brunch is always cool. Then there's always sushi! Would love to meet for intriguing conversations. If you're brave...take a Bikram class with me.