first off i am 37 not 31.born in 1972..pof doesnt change it when i edit the year????i have two kids,son 13 and daughter 11.like most of us they come first in all my decisions but i would like to add someone else to the mix.i have both kids all the time but i am self employed so my schedule is flexible.it has to be with kids.if you are wondering... i was not the cause of my divorce(2 yrs ago).this is why i have both kids.i am extremely loyal honest and repectful to those in my life,sometimes to a fault.both in a relationship must be this way to make it work not just one.i am not one to tell you what you want to hear.i usually tell it like it is without being rude.so i am not going to be out just looking for a booty call,i have to much at stake for childish games.and it is just not in my character.i love to joke around and be a goofball as much as i can because there are so many times when i have to be serious.i have a very high work ethic but also know whats important in life.i am who i say i am!!not a liar,cheater,abuser,nor am i a looser!guaranteed!!

a nice dinner at a quiet place followed by drinks in a calm setting so we can hear each other and find out who the other one really is