Maybe I am going out on a limb here, but I'd like to think, like every other person on this site, I am looking for love in the long run. Honesty, trust, communication. Love is a HUGE word that gets thrown around a lot. Love this, love that, Love you....I feel that true love is giving someone the power to destroy you, but trusting them not to....I am looking for someone to share lifes laughter, and all the fun that life and family can bring, but also be a pillar if things aren't as rosey as we expected.
I am looking for someone to fall in the river or stream with while flyfishing, (them rocks can be slippery!). Someone to share some wine or some beers by the fire, when we are camping. Take an evening or a whole day (if we so choose) of loungin' in our jammies (if we choose) on the couch, watchin movies. Go shoot a round of golf and break windows, (not on purpose, it's just my level of play), JK! Food fights in the kitchen when we are fighting over who gets to cook tonite. I love to cook! Hop in the Jeep and head for the mountains, get lost, (I am a man and refuse to ask directions), find a little dive, have some lunch or find a stream to have a picnic by. Looking for someone that laughs, (mostly at themselves, because I do!!!) loves, digs hugs and kisses and doesn't take things for granted. I am the type of person, and am looking for someone that looks at life as a blessing and doesn't concern themselves with, and create huge drama, over the little meaningless things that we will never be able to take with us in the end. PLEASE! Leave the drama behind, or with your ex! I am not him!!!....really.....We are starting fresh here.....not where we left off with the past.....look at it as a "DO OVER".

Here's some humor for ya!!!

Man rules!

They are all numbered #1 for a reason!

1. Men are NOT mind readers.

1. Learn to work the toilet seat.
You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down.
We need it up, you need it down.
You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.

1. Sunday sports It's like the full moon
or the changing of the tides.
Let it be.

1. Crying is blackmail.

1. Ask for what you want.
Let us be clear on this one:
Subtle hints do not work!
Strong hints do not work!
Obvious hints do not work!
Just say it!

1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.

1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's what we do.
Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.


1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument.
In fact, all comments become Null and void after 7 Days.


1. If you think you're fat, you probably are.
Don't ask us.

1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one

1. You can either ask us to do something
Or tell us how you want it done.
Not both.
If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.

1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials..

1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.

1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings.
Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.

1. If it itches, it will be scratched.
We do that.

1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong.
We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.

1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.

1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine... Really .

1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as baseball
or golf.

1. You have enough clothes.

1.. You have too many shoes.

1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!

1. Thank you for reading this.
Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;


But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.

Not that it matters....but , I kinda blame myself for my divorce.....I think our last fight was my fault...she was asking me what was on TV tonite....and I said "dust"....(that was totally a joke)!


Hopefully you are smiling and you got a kick out of that! If not....I am not the one for you....nor you for me.

"What you do with your life is only half of the equation....who you are doing it with, is what makes it special"

Hope to hear from you soon,

Todd

First dates can be very misleading. It is almost like an interview. All the facades, uncomfortableness, anxiety. I like to save the best date for the second meeting. A first meeting could be as easy as a cup of coffee, or a "drink" (cuz I can't say "c-o-c-ktail" on here). It is your first meeting. Keep it simple and unpretentious. Get to know eachother better. Ask all those questions you forgot to ask over the emails you have been exchanging.
Date two should be the slammer. Now that you know a little more about eachother, obviously attracted enough to make a second date, now take the time and efforts and make this one special. A fabulous dinner spot, a walk in the park, share a bottle of wine next to the river. The sky is the limits.