Young looking 42 year old with an "old soul" I am totally an old fashioned girl. I love to take care of my man in every way a woman can (as long as it is appreciated) I look girlie but am very tomboyish as well. I like to hunt (deer), fish (yes, I bait my own hook), I read (a lot),I love funny movies and I am happiest hanging out around the house. I do not need to be entertained 24/7. I prefer cooking at home and watching a movie than hitting the night life and dining out (not that I don't like that too...just not all the time). I am a glass half full kind of person and I don't sweat the small stuff and it takes a lot to make me angry.I don't believe in "soul mates". I believe that love is an action and a decision. Something that requires a lot of energy, effort, work and a lot of communication. I am not a mind reader and I don't expect the person in my life to be one either. I am a very good communicator..what you see is what you get with me.I am honest to a fault. I live my life openly, with integrity and character. If you have a question just ask, I will tell you the truth even if it's not what you want to hear.I want respect more so than love because if you have respect for me, you will be honest with me, you will not play head games with me, you will not cheat, you will care about my feelings and my needs as I will yours. (You can love someone and not respect them. That is why I say I want that more than anything). I accept people for who they are at face value with the good the bad and the ugly. I do not try to change people and I know that no one is perfect so... neither am I.. if you accept me for all my good and all my faults, we'll be good friends maybe more. I don't want a man just wanting a good time between the sheets...so... if that is what you are looking for.. you might as well MOVE ON mister.I am Looking for that beautiful man who truly knows and loves God.Not a "RELIGIOUS" man but one that has a "RELATIONSHIP" with HIM (HUGE difference). If a man can not or will not lead himself.. he will not be able to lead me.


I am not looking for a KNIGHT IN SHINING ARMOUR.. I don't wanna get stuck cleaning up after his horse!!!

Oh and fellas.. NO PICTURE>> NO RESPONSE!
And if you are a man who is in his 30's,40's or 50's and have 18 year olds in your search criteria... that is just bothersome to me so please don't bother contacting me.

Updated info: I am putting this in here because I guess I have offended some men that I graciously made clear I was not interested in. I KNOW what I like. I like white men (no I am not racist..it's just what I am attracted to) I am not attracted to the business suit type either (does nothing for me...sorry).. I love rowdy boys (especially country boys)and a man who works with his hands.. nothing sexier than a man who gets dirty.
I hope that helps and I am sorry to those of you that don't understand where I'm coming from... I just know what I like and want. Thanks

I am a cautious girl so...A first meeting would be very casual and not too secluded.

I like to shoot pool, fish, hang out at the lake or beach, car shows, BBQ with friends and keeping it low keyed.