This is a mystery, how does one express the multi-faceted three dimensional in a two dimensional form? And yet, here we are!

I am happy because I choose to be! Life is an adventure, enjoy the ride! I am complex not complicated. I need, I am not needy. I am adaptable, easy going, tolerant and loving; that doesn't make me a door mat. It doesn't matter where I go, it matters who I am with. Take me to the symphony one night and a dive bar the next, it's all good.

I am here to meet my best friend. I am here to find my life partner. Someone I can have fun with doing absolutely nothing. Someone to climb mountains and explore the world with, who can also lay on the couch and watch a movie. It doesn't matter what you have, I want to know who you are and how you treat the people in your life. I need a man of integrity who knows the value of being his word. "The only way you know you love yourself and others is by the commitments you are willing to make and keep", Dr. Pat Allen.


I am whole and complete, I do not need someone to complete me. I am honest, loyal, trustworthy, and dependable. If a friend in need calls at 4am, I am there. I am the friend who will help you move, lol. I am looking for a mate that has those same kind of friendships in his life. I am silly and playful, but please don't doubt that I can be serious at times as well. I enjoy a good banter. I have conviction with out the need to be right. I need to feel attracted, but that doesn't mean that magazine cover looks are required. Beauty is in the "heart" of this beholder. I am passionate about life and love. I am constantly growing and evolving, I want someone to grow and evolve with. Everyday is an opportunity to change for the better. I have a massive capacity to love. Relationships may be work, but that doesn't mean it can't be fun!!

My pictures are current, I weigh 115 lbs, and I am really 47........ 'cause why would I lie about that!!! lol.

I appreciate all those who are interested, but honestly, I will only respond to those who are geographically desirable and have photos posted. There is only one real way to know if there is a connection and that is to meet.

Depends.........
second date, that is another story!