I am just looking to meet nice people. The relationship part happens or doesn't. I am grown up enough to avoid trouble and am accountable for my actions. For a relationship long term potential and honesty are essential.


I have a positive approach to life and even though I am not religious I try to follow simple rules like "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you".
I enjoy good conversations and fun activities. Some people know that I can be intense and get competitive but this to me is the spark of life. Just being all content and on an even level all the time would be boring. But I am not an extreme sports or thrills type of person, I know my limits and don't think I need to push them over the edge which doesn't mean I don't like to try new things that could scare me. Just tried Zip Lining for the first time which was exciting and turned out to be a lot of fun.
I love to watch sports and can get quite anxious when I follow a Sharks games. I enjoy eating good food and cooking, watching movies, going shopping, farmers markets, arts and musicals ("Unwarly thoughts" is part of a memorable line from the Opera Aida...)

I have a great job but as much as people envy me for being able to work from home full time it can be a bit lonely and I don't meet many new people on my way to work or in my home office ;)


Inspired by Leonard Cohen:

You came to me this morning
and you handled me like meat
it have to be a man to know
how good that feels how sweet
my mirror twin my next of kin
I know you in my sleep
and who but you would take me in
a thousand kisses deep

Have a tea or hot chocolate. Go for a walk at Santana Row, sit in the Garden of the Winchester house, go to a farmers market. Walk along Embaracadero in San Francisco, Have a Tea at Samovar.