I am 42 years old and am looking for someone to spend time with, go to the movies, have coffee, check out a movie, have dinner and relax with. Someone I can laugh and joke around with. I enjoy playing board and card games and spending time with my family. Family and friends are very important to me. I have a daughter who is twelve and is living with me and is a large part of my life. I do not do the bar scene or clubs, I am more of a one on one type person or small groups. I work long hours but would love to have that person in my life who makes me want to leave the office and have some fun.
I am originally from New York . I tend to be sarcastic and have realized thru life that my sarcasm is more of a defense mechanism.
A quote I came across recently holds oh so very true, don't make someone a priority in your life when you are just an option in theirs.!! So true.

Regardless of the situation, first dates are awkward. Maybe meet for coffee or a drink and get to know each other. I truly do not feel it matters where you go but whom you are with. Have some laughs, laughter is definitely an ice breaker.