My name is Jess, Im 23 and I have a 2 year old little boy who is and always will be the love of my life. If you don't like children then move on... Right now Im trying to get my life back on track. Hoping to start school back up in the fall to get my bachelor's in English and German and hope to one day get my phD in Comparative Literature. I love to read anything that will keep my interest. I like to go out with my girls once ever couple of weeks to catch up and go dance. Im a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl. I like to cook, I love music, I'll listen to anything from Ron Pope to Nirvana. Im just a simple, downn to earth girl, looking to be happy for once..


What Im looking for is someone who can be caring and trustworthy, someone who is every bit as unique as I am. I need someone who can hold their own against me, who can take anything that I dish at them and give it straight back, I have an attitude(comes with the territory of being a red head I suppose) and I need a man who knows how to handle it and an embrace it. No B.S. Im a very open and honest person and I'd like the same in return..

***Apparently it's too much to ask that a man have a job to boot. No woman wants a man that they are going to have to support on top of themselves. I'd like someone who will be perfectly capable of taking care of themselves and isn't going to feed off of my hard earned money. Guys also complain about woman who don't give them the time of day based on their "looks" persay, let me tell you something... men are the worst when it comes to pickyness. They have to be blonde with big boobs, blue eyes, 110 pounds soaking wet.... good luck to you if that's what your looking for and congrats if you've found it. Im not that stereotypical girl, but I have a good head on my shoulders, goals to work towards, and a beautiful baby boy that I've raised ON MY OWN working full time, I think I've done pretty damn good for myself!

If you'd like to know more, message me on here or...

AIM: monkeyspanker4e
Yahoo!: j_bleth86

For a first date I'd like to just keep it casual. Grab something simple for dinner and talk and walk around town or something. I find that going to the movies doesnt give you the chance to talk and get to know one another..