Christmas is now over...only New Year's left of 2009! Gosh I love my family!

Now I have chosen Friends because I hope to find in a life partner (what is left of it haha)- my best friend, someone who will be there through the good and bad and always tell me the truth! To Care means more to me than To Love...compassion, trust, honesty, loyalty, longevity, laughter and tears. I need honesty, respect, a smile, a sincere appreciation and love of life. The sort of man who looks beyond the outside vestigages, values what's at the core. He has the desire to invest himself in something real and lasting. To laugh and cry together, to experience new things as well as the old and who has the time and energy to live until we die!

One day,I will look into a face and see that I am valued and cherished without a word being spoken, even when I am at my worst, or I will be satisfied with a mirror!

My Forever Wish List? - I desire peace, harmony and reality in my relationships: family, friend or lover. I am comfortable with me and quite aware of my flaws so don't need any direction or correction.

Please, please, don't just write what you think I want to hear in a profile, ... tell me about the real you...we are all human and have good and bad in us..that is reality and I am not looking for a 'perfect' man, just a real one! If you can be honest with yourself, then you should be comfortable being honest with me.

I believe the "Secret" is taking control of your life and making the good things happen. I want no guilt or regrets when I leave this life and I want to be able to stand by my decisions, choices and actions when that time comes! (Hope that is a long time in the future lol!)

Not at all into coffee shop interviews...too stilted and pressurized...lets find something that will allow us to relax, enjoy getting to know each other, something fun and silly......pool...bowling...sky diving...okay, that last one could be the first date if we make it past the fun first greeting haha...