Just so people don't think I am so desperate that I am a special member I did not ask to be!!! I am a 42 year old divorced woman with two great kids - most of my time is spent keeping up with them and their activities. That doesn't mean I don't have time for other relationships and actvities. I am a lot of fun to be around. I love to laugh and make people laugh. I can be the loudest person in the room but I can also be quiet and take it all in and be a great listener. My friends say I am a kind and giving person. I like athletic men who like sports because I enjoy the same. I am a big Red Sox fan, love the beach, travelling, concerts, music, big cities, small towns, sports bars, fancy restaraunts, the outdoors, staying in for a quiet night. I can be spontaneous and love to take long drives and see where we end up! I am looking for someone who can be my friend, and maybe more and enjoy life! There are lots of things to do and explore in this world and I want to take it all in!

First dates are always awkward and nerve racking. I find it easier to meet at a bar and talk over a couple drinks, loosen up a bit.