Hi there, and thanks for taking a look around. A bit about me.....

I appreciate most kinds of music. I enjoy going to the Wiedner Center or the PAC and seeing performances. I ride a motorcycle, paint cars, and I love water. I love the outdoors, and was hoping to start snowboarding this year, but I didnt get to do that. I enjoy playing soccer and basketball, throwing frisbie and playing catch. I relish wildlife and love most animals.

As far as my personality, I tell it how it is as my word is my bond. Personal integrity is huge to me, and I dont backstab anyone and do not play games or lie. Life is too short for drama and headgames, I don't control anyone and I try hard not to influence decisions. I will give an opinion when asked but otherwise I try to mind my own business. I believe in logic above most everything else in most every situation....

On the quieter side - I enjoy listening to someone breath, feeling a heart beat, just feeling the warmth of another against me. The simple moments as watching the sun set, looking out over the water watching the waves roll in, skipping stones and seeing the ripples from it, and running through the water.

I dont watch much tv, but when I do its normally the history or discovery channels. I also enjoy NCIS and House. I work full time which keeps me busy, and dont like to waste my time on the bar scene. Dont get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with going out and having a good time, but not every single time one has a night off. I do shoot pool almost weekly, its kind of a guilty pleasure.

I don't like to plan things to the last detail....I like surprises and just taking the day to do something unscripted. Spur of the moment one could say I suppose, living in the here and now.

I have two wonderful children that mean the world to me. They don't need a mom, but a friend would be nice. They are respectful and courteous and I demand the same. Along with this comes the realisation that I have the responsibility for how two of tomorrows adults turn out and I take that quite seriously. They are well rounded, screwballish sometimes, and playful others.

I am:.....
Passionate
Driven
Open
Honest, sometimes too honest
Thoughtful, which sometimes comes off as withdrawn
Reserved, which can be seen as uncaring
Warm
Humerous, even if I am the source of my own jokes
Bold, which may appear defiant at times
Stubborn
Sincere
Selfish in some ways....
Loving
Strong, but I charish a soft touch
Patient
Good with my hands
Creative
And....I refuse to conform to the standards of being lumped as "one of the guys"

If this sounds interesting to you, or if you would like to know more please say hello. I look forward to talking with you.

How about a game of mini golf? How about a walk or a cup of coffee, maybe skydiving? No odd formalities while hopefully sharing a few laughs and smiles.