Hi there

Born in the UK, now in the USA. I own my own company that has been in the family for going on a hundred years, though I have developed it from what it used to be to more global. I did not go on to university, I went into business - I have come across a few who would not go on a date because I did not have a degree - something I could not understand, especially as I took a US University IQ test and scored in the top 2% in the USA (still trying to work out how I did that!). Going to University and getting a degree is not a qualification for life - I know plenty of dumb graduates!

After suffering through a divorce not of my making, I am still searching for that new someone. Not that I have not been out there dating, but I have been unlucky in meeting many who told 'porky pies' about their weight, age, height, marital status and had well retouched photos - so much so, I quit all dating sites for over 2 years.

I expect of someone else what they would expect of me, good manners, courtesy and a positive attitude - a sense of fun and a willingness to try new things (such as wind surfing and not bizarre experiments)! Travel is always in my plans so someone who could travel with me would be good, but not essential. If you like holding hands and hugs etc. great! Those who had parents, priests, vicars and rabbis who told them never to hold hands in public, or kiss, or hug etc. need not apply - what is wrong with showing how you feel?

I have pets (they keep me sane, though can drive me mad too lol), so hopefully you are not allergic to cats and dogs.

First dates are frought with difficulties - nerves on both sides, first impressions etc. I find that a smile always makes the difference. Nowhere noisy, who wants to shout above a band or a loud crowd? I want to hear what my date has to say, so a nice restaurant with a good atmosphere and subtle pianist in the background. After the meal, a walk where one can hear the waves lapping against the shore and see the stars in the sky (ok ... the beach!)