I do have kids and yes I am gay! My kids were during my closeted years and I love em dearly. I would not change having them even if I could change time. So if ya don’t like kids, you’re barking up the wrong tree here. My oldest son is 10 and used to be a bookworm. Now all he does is play video games, and I am okay with that since he is still doing very well in school. In Idaho he was in an advanced math class and reading at a much higher grade level. My youngest son is 8 and is a handful. He is all boy, with too much energy in and out of school. He prefers to play outside with friends above all else. He currently resides in Idaho but I miss him and hope to see him soon!
Currently I am single and I have my eyes open to the idea of looking for that special somebody. But in all honesty I am totally okay with being single since I have a lot on my plate to deal with. I have to find a job even if it’s not the two I want, get a car and start helping my sister pay the bills. The sad reality of seeking a relationship is I see too many liars, crack heads, closet cases and drama queens. With those cards stacked against me I am detoured of actively seeking a relationship. This does not mean I would not like one or desire one; I just don’t have a lot of time to deal with the gays and their ways. I just hope I don’t wake up one day when I am an old troll and a has-been and still on gay dot com looking for a boyfriend. I will be optimistic and re-iterate the thought that good things come to those who wait. And I like the idea that an almighty being took the time to create me a special person and for me to experience true love and share my time with on this earth.
(.....and a lil side note on sex) We all know sex, especially gay sex, is at everyone of our disposal. With that in mind sex is SO over rated. I can get it from any Tom,**** or Harry, so I choose to abstain from the sleeping around scene. (Although I have had my share of one-night stands cause gawd knows I ain’t an angel) However, I figured it got me nowhere and so now I just choose to wait. My goal is to do the whole traditional courting someone. Do the whole dating thing, and actually get to know the person I am interested in. And if there is an emotional connection then and only then, let it move on and become physically intimate.
Well if you have made it this far you must be somewhat interested, so if you see me online don’t be shy, say hi. I don’t bite and I think I am a nice guy.

Lemme think about this one