To help you from wasting your time, I am not a model looking guy, average looking,has a little gut but working on getting rid of it. Have worked out out all my life and still do. Swim every other day or more. Happy with who I am and life. Always positive, so if like to know more read on and than if more just write and ask.

A nice,loving man. Been told i am a giver.I enjoy cooking for myself and others. Hard worker,have an accounting business trying to build as I work full time at other jobs. It may seem I work a lot but that is because I have no one to fill time with so I work. Enjoy romance and pleasing a woman to make her smile. Quite but enjoy conversation and told a good listener. Enjoy touching and touching and being touched. Like to travel to area of country have been before. Goal is to get out of debt by end of year. Go on an Alaskan cruise. I have lived a full life and done many things more than most people do in 2 life times. Have no one item that I enjoy..enjoy many items and like learning and doing new adventure..

Now me I :

To begin with a woman who wants to talk on phone after one or two email and than meet not email for several weeks and than decide to meet finding out it was a waste of time...LOL so let talk and meet and see if we should go on o if this did not scare you off read on.

A woman who is over her x or x's, enjoys a man's company,conversation,letting me cook,independent to herself,happy with herself,likes to be romance, enjoys receiving affection both privately and public, will return affection.Tell me her dreams,goals, and what makes her smile. Enjoys doing new adventures or learning something new. Telling me when I do something wrong or stupid( because I am a man and will right...LOL) Does not mind helping me shop for clothing for I am again a man...LOL Knows I will not agree with everything but, I will try to understand your .point of view. FYI.. Do not mind emailing for a while,want to talk on phone and than meet with you..I know this is the old fashion way.


A poem I found that describes how I feel sometimes.

I cannot promise you
a lifetime or even a day
For my days and yours
are bound to others
through a lifetime commitment
What I can offer
is simply...me
For whatever amount of time
we can steal
I offer you laughter
for laughter is beauty
I offer you honesty
for honesty is pure
I offer patience
for patience is needed to gain trust
I offer you sincerity
for through my sincerity I will show
you my inner being and desires
All I ask in return
is for you to be honest and open
for through your honesty and openness
I will receive from you
all that I offer........
(Roger C. Van Horn)

Like to find a place near a water front watch the sunset as we talk with dinner and drinks. Take a walk and learn about each other. From there what makes her feel comfortable and what she would want to do.