I'm 25 living in central NJ/Upper East side in the city. I am very easy going, laid back guy...but I'm realizing there's prob not a profile on here that doesn't include that line - I try not to let negative things affect me for long. I'm extremely close with my family and have a very close knit group of friends. I love to be spontaneous and do things on a whim. I like going to the beach, working out, traveling, snowboarding,yada yada yada.

I work crazy hours at an investment bank during the week and while I don't hate it, ultimately I don't like wasting my best years working. The working plan is to make as much money as I can as fast as I can and retire as early as possible so I can enjoy the real things in life.

Long story short, I'm tired of trying to meet girls at a bar. I feel like everything these days has become about games. Whether it's trying to get the upper hand or trying to get control or trying mask how much you really like someone so your not more invested than them. Just once, I'd love to meet someone where this doesn't happen.

With that said, I don't really have any expectations or anything specific that Im looking for. Ultimately, I'd like to meet someone and have a meaningful relationship but Id like to start by just meeting someone who I can hang out with that I get along with and let things develop naturally. It's all about chemistry for me. I'm extremely picky, but I have a lot to offer and I'm unlike any other guy out there.


***I don't want to sound like a shallow ***hole and I really appreciate all the emails but I work very hard to stay in great shape and I find that I'm more attracted to girls who take care of themselves too so please keep that in mind***

Update: I realize that the above makes me look exactly like a shallow ***hole but I'm just being honest, so no more emails saying "you know..your really just a shallow ***hole"

Some Observations About Females On This Site:
- 80% of girls have the unoriginal "Kissyface" Picture.
- 90% of the italian girls on here have "Bella" in their nickname or headline.
- 95% of Irish Chicks have the nickname "IRISHCHIK##" or "XXiRiSHCuTieXX"
- Girls who say they're a "REAL WOMAN" are large, and largely unattractive.
- Body Type: Prefer not to say = 99.9% Morbidly Obese. the .1% is somebody accidentally selecting it.
- Profiles with girls in Bikinis' descriptions usually sound like a guy typing it.
- Latino girls always have "sexy" at least twice in their profile, regardless of actual sexyness.
- Most of the black girls on here say "I prefer white guys"
- None of the white girls on here say "I prefer white guys"
- 20 year olds with children A) Don't shut up about their Children and B) Do actually want a daddy.
- Girls who are "into cars" look like your date with them will only be in the back of one... and desire nothing but a status symbol.
- Given their looks or intellectual capacity, a lot of women here set the bar way too high.
- Girls who claim they're not here for a "booty call" actually look like they work on street corners.
- Most Girls lookin for "a Real Man" aren't "a Real Woman."