aww nuts no yellow dot next to my pic, guess i'm not serious. Or AM I???

Music is a big love of mine especially seminal and brilliant groups like The Smiths, Joy Division, Tindersticks, Pony Club, Band Of Holy Joy etc. I'm a singer, guitarist and songwriter. Despite being a performer i'm pretty shy until i get to know someone a bit.

I also really enjoy (alt) comedy and have a pretty good sense of humour, at least i think so, the rest of world seems to take a bit to catch on to my jokes, too deadpan i guess. Oh lordy this has gotten me in trouble lately with unstable POFers who don't understand tongue in cheek at all.

I speak about 32 french words, and about 13 japanese words (just a fun fact)

I like to travel and especially enjoy visiting Ireland and the U.K. just returned from Iceland and England where my band played our first UK show. Thankfully it went pretty well.

I work in Bellevue but bought my house in Tacoma because I love the city of destiny. I hang out in Seattle a lot though too. (This is where driving a Prius really pays off)

I have 2 cats who i adore despite them being stand offish sometimes (they were feral cats)

I like polite people, who like to walk whenever possible.

I'm agnostic, formerly catholic but am open to dating someone spiritual, provided they aren't pushy about it. I can't really take you seriously though if you are a scientologist.

Ideally i'm looking for someone smart, sweet, sexy, fun, loving and supportive (emotionally). Same as everyone I guess, but I would add that I would like to see eye to eye politically (I'm liberal) and someone who had good taste in music, who dances like she's got a bee in her brain, who dances like she might never again.

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I can't really describe exactly what i'm attracted to physically because i like lots of different types but i tend to generally prefer petite women fit to fairly fit. (no i don't mind if you're taller then me, if you don't mind) Generally looking for ages 22-36 if you're outside that range i won't rule you out because everyone's different but I probably won't message you first so if you're interested then message me...and if your settings won't allow someone my age to message you then seriously you have to email me first. MY POLICY IS TO MESSAGE PEOPLE ONCE, if you don't respond that's fine, but don't expect me to try and win you over or whatever. I won't bother. I'm not interested in the weird games some of you women on here like to play.
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I'm not really interested at the moment in dating someone who already has children.

I'm pretty new to this sort of thing so if you're at all interested or have additional questions for goodness sake message me already.

There's a song by the Divine Comedy that has a pretty eloquent take on what i'm going for in life...

"Rise up little souls
Join the doomed army
Fight the good fight
Wage the unwinnable war
Elegance against ignorance
Difference against indifference
Wit against shit"

Despite that i'm very easy going and down to earth. I'm also honest, caring and considerate. what else could you possibly want? :-)

Feel free to say hello. Even if i'm not interested, i'm nice about it.

anything where you can actually talk...