Which is more important ... the picture ... the profile ... the age ... or the heart?

I have very few pictures of myself because the camera has typically been pointed the other way, that's my job and i do it well, So that might tell you that I'm not self-centered. I've done the best to write a meaningful profile, but it really doesn't tell the whole story, you might have seen me on this site before and now you see something new on this profile just to update and see what words fit better about me, my heart is in the right place and I'm ready to surrender it to the right woman. However, I just don't get it ... I have had a lot of women viewing my profile and saying hello and you sound interesting ... but that is usually where it ends...No response, no winks, no little guys jumping or smiling...NADA!

If you are seeking perfection in a partner ... you are not going to find it. Once you get to know me you will discover that I'm a good listener and a considerate person. I enjoy playing sports from softball, Racquetball and keep myself in shape by regular exercise im no body builder but i have to keep in decent shape for the work i do is sometimes very physical. No project is too difficult for me (I was the contractor on my own home)...so if you need a handy guy around ... I'm the one for you. I always look for ways to keep informed on the issues affecting our lives, which can lead to stimulating your mind with intelligent conversation, i'm not a MENSA member but im smarter then a fifth grader...lol, I also can sense when it is time to shut up and enjoy the moment. You will find that I will take interest in those things that interest you. Bottom line: I'm a rare find...very rare NOT Medium rare...

I'm looking for what is now lacking in my life ... a woman who completes me ... a woman who will make me want to be that better man ... companionship ... a woman who enjoys walking hand-in-hand and appreciates an attentive man. My special lady should cause my heart rate to climb every time I see her smile at me, or when she simply walks into the room. I'm a good and decent man, secure and looking for a woman for a meaningful relationship.

As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal . For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself wit h some 22-year old waitress. Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?', here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why? Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig just to get a little sausage!

Well i have been on this site for a few weeks, have emailed and chatted with some lovely ladies on the phone and on the IM. I only have one question "Whats with meeting at a coffee shop?" I love coffee DD not Star Bucks but that's a matter of choice. Anyway if you want to meet at a coffee shop then no problem. Then maybe if we hit it off together then i will take you to a nice Spanish Restaurant and have some tapas and Sangria. What do you Think? is it a date?

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I got this from a lady on this site and i though it was a nice way to remember someone you loved. pass it on.