Profession
Small buisiness owner + Sales
About Me
http://groups.spam.com/HRdanceclubs
People that like to dance and party help me with this group 8)
NAME...Brian, or Harper friends call me Harper, no I'm not military but definitely Brian doesn't suit me well. Seems only my girlfriends have called me Brian for the past 10 years heh.
HOMETOWN...Hampton, VA
FAMILY...Adopted: my parents lost 2 children then adopted me, YAY 8) I would have to say I love them more than anything else in this world. I can count on them for anything and they feel the same about me.
BIRTHDAY...May 15th
WHAT WOULD BE A THEME SONG ABOUT YOUR LIFE... That changes too much, but its always a fun song 8)
TURN ON's/TURN OFF'S... Turn offs first...Drugs, people who speak ignorantly or excessive complaining. Turn on's, good dancing, people motivated to get what they want, beautiful eyes, pretty lips, and a woman who makes the first move.
FAVORITE PHRASE..."Doh!" well thtas just a word isn't it?
FAVORITE FOOD...Strawberries, jalapeno poppers, chicken, cheese!
FAVORITE MOVIES... How do I rate this gahd! The movies I've seen the most: 300, the Last Starfighter, Fast and the Furious. Most influential: The Notebook, Good Will Hunting, The Cube. Most memorable: The Dark Crystal, The Labrynth, Willow, An American Tale ( I still play "somewhere out there" on the piano and play it my mind all the time) and 6th Sence ( Big Bruce Willis Fan)
FAVORITE VACATION DESTINATION...Blue Ridge Mountains late summer. Love the smell of the air, and its fall up there when its summer here, I love just walking, seeing the waterfalls, the wildlife, waking up walking to a lodge for coffee on a cool morning drinking coffee while looking over into the valley. I went there most every summer for vacation growing up and its a place of peace for me now.
FAVORITE TV SHOW... I don't watch tv, but the most captivating I've seen recently is law and order SVU.
MOST ANNOYING HABIT... Drugs
BIGGEST PET PEEVES...Do NOT use metal utensils on pans with teflon, god that pisses me off! Bad thing is I think thats my only one!
CRAZIEST THING YOU HAVE EVER DONE... Got married hundreds of miles away without telling anyone except my parents. Bad part is it lasted 3 months and I had it annulled 8(
FAVORITE WEBSITES... spam.com!
BEST ADVICE YOU'VE EVER RECEIVED...When you go out, don't try to hook up with anyone, just have fun, if anyone is interested in you they'll come to you
MY FIRST JOB... Hardee's. I was there for almost 7 years too, Bad, but I was bred very loyal and through all the abuse from them and such I still stuck with them till I just couldn't take it anymore.
IF YOU COULD TRADE PLACES WITH ANYONE, WHO WOULD IT BE... A Rock Star, not for long, but I have that mentality when I go out, have fun, get wild, enjoy life to the fullest! Oh and traveling too!
YOUR FAVORITE HAMPTON ROADS HANG OUT...Sandbar on J Clyde Morris. They have their big nights on weekdays where everywhere else is dead, I love that!
MOST EMBARRASSING MOMENT... not sure I don't get embarassed easy but I think its when I was at the beach as a kid and a strong wave knocked my swimsuit off haha had to get my dad to bring me a towel to get outa the water LOL
BEST QUALITY... Diplomatic
GREATEST ACCOMPLISHMENTS... Getting my best friend off cocaine, being #1 in the world in something, if you ask I'll tell!
MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE... My family and my friend Mark.
WHAT IS SOMETHING YOU CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT... food, water, shelter and love.
WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH/CRY...Pretty much everything! I have a bunch of differen't laughs, haha my online buddies when I laugh they love my evil laugh hehe. I’m kinda emotional, a lot of movies get to me but I love to laugh, it’s the best sound in the world!
MOST MEMORABLE MOMENT... The trip where I got married. Seems like a dream now. It was awesome.
PERFECT DATE... Start the day by going to the beach, grab an Italian or mongolian barbeque dinner, go out for dancing and drinks, come back to my house flirt and cuddle while watching a movie and have a drink or two more, then have the lady fall asleep with me in my bed, then wake up and look at her in the morning 8)
FAVORITE CAR… My old car, it was a christmass tree on wheels, a mobile club, hehe well my new car I haven't done anything to yet but soon ittle be my favorite car 8)
FAVORITE SHOPPING… Cloths, mostly small stores, you definitely dont wanna go shopping with me tho, I'ts a full day event to find 1 outfit normally LOL
ANY LAST WORDS… A person will always be faced with challenges and adversity. Alot of people wil not do what it takes to rise above the larger challenges, or avoid them, try your best to stomp each obstacle you come across into the ground and spend 1 hour a day on something to improve yourself, it will be well worth it. Every day theres things you do that are maintenance or improvements, cleaning house, thats maintanence, Building a buisiness, or improving your knowledge to make that buisiness grow or for other people, just putting applications to jobs you shouldn't even get hired for, you never know what you may get if you try.
I don't have problems meeting women: Problem is the women I meet are at bars/clubs, after meeting 100 you end up finding a good one, maybe this will fix that.
Me: I dance, shoot pool, go to the beach, I play video games here and there to kill time (maybe you could kill that time for me ;) ) I like to take care of myself but forewarning I look nowhere near my age because of that. I'm a bit wild but tame as well, I love sitting in my house watching movies with a good woman just as much as a night shakin my booty. I like going out 1 or 2 times a week. More than that and I feel like im wasting time that could be spent on being productive. I'm looking for a wide range of people, but theres things that are instantly a reason ill never speak to you again. 1 drugs, I'm a big anti drug person, I can meet 6+ women at a bar/club in a night but I always find out they are drug users most of the time. Second, I want a woman fluent in the English language and can communicate well (in other words I'm not into the ebonics version of English and prefer if you could speak intelligently.) I have family oriented values and do want a family of my own. I prefer women with an interest in the same music, drug free, responsible and motivated, but also with energy. I'm looking to meet some good women who like to go out, dancing preferred. I recently went through the most traumatic point in my life and because of which I have to build back up, sucks but true. I want good friend with good fun for when its time to shake off some stress on the dance floor. I have a great mind, a fit body, great attitude, good dancer. I have a house
First Date
If we haven't talked much, DEFINITELY I would take you dancing LOL. It really depends, sometimes I ask people to hang out at the beach and get some sun on the first date. I'm not a big movie goer because I have my own theater so that basic date wont happen. Besides, movies I enjoy much better in my own home than in any theater I've been in. Would definitely be either dancing or the beach. Dancing being the most prevalent and I hooooope you can keep up ;). I generally dance within 15 minutes of getting there until they shut the place down. Perfect date for me, Start off by going to the beach, hop from the beach, clean up and get dressed For a night of dancing, then come back to my place have a drink and watch a movie if were still wound up from gyrating on the dance floor. Anyhow I think thats on the questionare I put on the previous section!
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