Well I am an optimist I can always find the good in something. So if that drives you nuts well I am probably not the person for you. I like to be very active I do not drive have never, so needless to say I walk everywhere I go, and dance for exercise. I do know how to shoot a mean game of pool but only play it for fun so no worries. This is really hard because I am probably the least pickiest person I know. How is this I like movies...I borrowed this off another site words of wisdom i feel, and very creative.

"Young lady, laughed the skeptic, You're sort of a fool

You'll NEVER catch fish in the plentyofish pool!

The pool is too small, and you might as well know it,

when people have junk here's the place that they throw it.

You might catch a boot or perhaps something shady.

You might catch a bottle, but listen young lady...

If you sat fifty years with your worms and your wishes,

you'd grow old and gray long before you'd catch fishes!"

"Hmmm... answered Sunday, It may be you're right.

I've been here 3 years without one single bite.

There might be no fish...

...but again, well, there MIGHT!

If I wait long enough, if I'm patient and cool,

who knows what I'll catch in the plentyofish pool!

I might catch a fish who is full of compassion,

i believe that that kind of fish still is in fashion.

I might catch a fish who's supportive and kind,

or perhaps a fish who makes love with his mind?

Or even a fish who loves sts9!!!

I might catch a fish who isn't judgmental,

I really love fish who are loving and gentle!

I might catch a fish who can grow and create.

Say, that kind of fish would really be great!

Oh the sea is so full of all manner of fish,

If I know what I want then I WILL get my wish

and catch a most kind and beautiful fish".


Last but not least I get a lot of emails from young men like in there 20's let me say this:

It is not older women are more mature because there are women your age as mature as you. It is that older women have lived a while longer and done the things that you are about to do so embrase this journey look for someone that can go on it with you. someone that wants children and wants to learn what life is and then grow together then watch her eyes as she learns what new things are and that is so much better than seeing someone say yes i knew that would happen...Like i said life is a journey find someone that can experience with you not someone that has experienced for you.

O.K back to this again my first date well I have had good dates just walking down the green belt and then sitting at dusk and having a drink and talking or going out dancing, but you really can't talk. The flying M is really good for coffee although I am a hot chocolate girl myself. or there is the dinner and a movie you can talk over dinner but not the movie, so I guess it all depends on the mood is what I am saying I think it all depends on who your with and how good your clicking..