OUR WEAKNESSES CAN BECOME OUR STRENGTHS,IT'S ALL IN HOW U APPLY THEM IN LIFE!!!
We earn our living with what we do; we make a life with what we give.
THIS DOESNT INCLUDE THE PEOPLE THAT ARE IN MY FAVS..NOTE 2 GAME PLAYERS,do not need to talk to u.i have good friends..i am on here to talk to the ones that can b real...so,for now..the way i see it..am only talking to the ones in my favs...unless u can conduct urself on a respectible level....I HAVE BEEN PLANNING FOR MY FUTURE...AM NOT LOOKING TO HAVE SOMEONE TAKE CARE OF ME..I CAME TO EFFINGHAM TO GET SOMETHINGS STRAIGHTENED OUT AND AM WORKING TOWARDS SOME WHAT OF A RETIREMENT FOR MYSELF..SOMEDAY..SOMEONE WILL COME ALONG AND MEET ME HALF WAY...WANTING SOME OF THE SAME THINGS THAT I AM LOOKING FOR AS WELL...MY AMERICAN BULLDOGS ARE IN MY FUTURE..AM A HUGH DOG LOVER,BUT I DO NOT LET THAT CONTROL MY LIFE.SO HOPEFULLY U LIKE DOGS..THEY ARE A BIG PART OF MY PLAN..BUT THEY DO KNOW THEIR PLACE IN MY HOUSEHOLD..NOT IN MY SLEEPING AREA..LOL!!!

The smallest gift is enough if you have a big heart.LOVE unconditional,always look to forgive,first...SMILE with everything u have...dont walk life with shame or embrassment..hold those u love closest to ur heart...tell them everyday,that they mean something to u....live life and laugh..love to the fullest...give in life holding no resentment or being angry...allow urself the freedom to love with ur heart&soul.always have a open&understanding spirit.IT'S NOT ABOUT QUANITY...IT'S ABOUT THE QUALITY...SHARING URSELF WITH SOMEONE,OPENLY&COMMUNICATING WITH A LEVEL HEAD,IS WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT....IF U HAVE EVER LOVED SOMEONE,U SHOULD KNOW WHAT I AM TALKING ABOUT....Most of times I find myself listening to music&just dancing around playing with my little babies(DOGS)...cleaning house...enjoying my day...AM USUALLY ALWAYS A HAPPY PERSON...WITH A SMILE,BUT I HAVE MY DAYS JUST LIKE EVERYONE ELSE...LET'S NOT FORGET,I DO LOVE TO HAVE...SOME HUMOR.
**ABOUT ME:I have 3 beautiful daughters, grown&am proud, being that I was a single parent. I truly work hard at raising them on my own. For the most part, I have worked in machine shops&metal fabrication environments. Being a skilled painter for many years. Am happy with who I have become as a person. No one has ever taken care of me, I have always provided for us. Have always been in long term relationships and I refuse to settle for anything less. Am very selective with who I am dating. If it’s not working I’ll move on. My life hasn’t been perfect&I honestly have felt some of the tougher parts of life. It has structured me in who I am today. Have always tried to look at life in a positive way. Being upfront&honest is a good policy to live by, even forward&direct, without rudeness. I can speak my mind if need be. I am not a push over. IF U ARE RUDE OR SOMETHING IN THAT NATURE,I HAVE NO PROBLEM TELLING U WHAT'S ON MY MIND OR WHERE U CAN GO WITH URSELF...BEING RESPECTFUL IS THE WAY TO B WITH ME...Raising 3 daughters has taught me a lot. Am one who has been protective of my home&family. My softer side, loving, giving&very understanding,CAN B FORGIVING..DON'T JUDGE OR GAGE ALL MEN AS THE SAME...LOOK AT SOMEONE AS AN INDIVIDUAL...MY MOTTO:DON'T EXPECT MORE THAN UR WILLING TO GIVE URSELF...IF UR NOT IN IT FOR THE PERCENTAGE OF MAKING IT WORK,IT'S NOT GOING TOO...**Thank GOD, I haven’t had to deal with an abusive situation, consider myself very lucky…NO, it was my choice not to stay with someone that was not good for me…was always smarter than that, picked up&moved along. Wasn‘t one to allow my children to be put in a intolerable situation…My daughter are very bit of my product. Very good responsible loving adults, (young&still learning) their hearts are in the right places. Responsible, assertive, pleasant, self-worth, respectful, genuine, sincere, loving (unconditional&forgiving), open, NOT perfect, but real.**Am not crazy about finding someone that is fake, phony or into playing games…since I have been a member on this site, I have found that so many people like to play games…it’s 2 sided…you want to continue talking…well, it takes both parties for that…I can find other things to preoccupy my time, yet…sometimes, I would love to find someone that is interesting&has the same taste(morals&values)in things as I do…I don’t mind watching sports…if I get bored, I can always find something else to entertain my time…am used to that one, lol…all of my interest have been listed above, so I see no need into going into that again…I do enjoy living life&stopping to smell the roses…looking around&soaking up what life has to offer me…breathing, smiling…laughing, having a good time with family&friends…treasure what u have in front of u, because it maybe gone tomorrow…if u lose someone u love, remember to always tell them that u love them…sharing every moment that u have with each other…if u have ever lost someone dear to u, u know where I am coming from…DO NOT TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED IN LIFE…KEEP LIFE SIMPLE…ALWAYS LEARN TO B FORGIVING…UNCONIDITIONALLY. GOD BLESS U ALL,SMOOCHES AS ALWAYS…GOOD LUCK FINDING SOMEONE…REALLY..Think I have come to the realization that life is going to take it's course no matter what...have always learned that if things are meant to b it will happen when it's time....Yes,I get lonely,sometimes...but I also like my solitude...comfort of living my own life.

HIS DUTY IS 2 SERVE OUR COUNTRY,MY DUTY IS 2 SUPPORT THEM:
**"IN THE HEAT OF BATTLE IT CEASES TO BE AN IDEA OR A FLAG FOR WHICH WE FIGHT.RATHER WE FIGHT FOR THE MAN ON OUR RIGHT OR LEFT.WHEN THE YEARS FALL AWAY,ALL THE REMAINS ARE THE MEMORIES OF THOSE PRECIOUS MOMENTS WE SPENT SIDE BY SIDE.
**If you must choose between two paths, either of which will bring death and defeat, then choose the path wherein you die fighting for honor and justice. -Ban Gu
PLEASE HAVE A SPEEDY&SAFE RETURN..I WANT 2 HEAR FROM U ALWAYS..I will b think'n of u..smooches...my dear friend,u r in my heart always.Dream'n the sexiest&sweetest ever!!THE MAN IN MY DREAMS(so far)IS THE CREME OF THE CROP..WOO HOO!!MY MOTO:I will not ever own him,just want to borrow him 4 the rest of my life,lol,GRRR!HOW YUMMY!!..I ACTUALLY HAVE SOME GOALS&PLANS,WORKING TOWARDS MAKING THINGS SOMEWHAT BETTER 4 MYSELF,SO RIGHT NOW,I AM IN NO HURRY 4 RUSH'N INTO A RELATIONSHIP,GET'N 2 KNOW SOMEONE,IS WHAT I AM LOOK'N 4&SEE'N THEM,WHEN WE BOTH HAVE FREE TIME.MAYB WORK'N TOWARDS A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP!!!
WELL,A GIRL CAN HAVE A DREAM,hopefully they come true,right!!No 1 read this stuff anyways..personal think,75% r look'n for a 1 time fling,phone sex,cam'n.23% r u unsure,2% r truly look'n..am hop'n that other person finds me...MMMM!!YUMMY!!
....my first true date,would b 2 give him a great big fat kiss,when he returned home.YUMMY!.....haaa haa..let's see if my big fat kiss will fit in here now,lol..send'n special kisses...SMOOCHES!!SOMEONE NIBBLE MY KISSES,MMM..YUMMY,OMG!
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