It is true that if something developes from a first meeting that I would not turn down a furure with that person, but the way I have learned over the years is that, you really should not buy a car without checking out the engine first. If you investigate on the internet, you can even find married women looking for just something right now, I know personaly. So before I jump into anything, I believe we must be compatible in EVERY area, especially the bedroom, because if we are not, somebody else will be. The sad part about that last statement, is the truth behind it if you think about it...Any questions, Send me a message.I have nothing to hide..But you may end up with a person that thinks more of your needs, than his..Humm...nice concept.

On a first date I believe exploration of the mind is important, along with finding out and being honest with what you want. If its just going to be physical, then let it be known, but if more, then we should take it from their. Walks in the park, or going to dinner someplace in a relaxed atmosphere works the best.