Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
About Me
As someone with high self-confidence, I feel quite comfortable interacting with other people. Indeed, I find the company of others very stimulating and enjoy meeting new people. My relaxed demeanor in groups makes people around me comfortable too. Perhaps because I feel comfortable talking about myself, others tend to enjoy being around me and perceive me as socially competent.
The confidence that helps me feel comfortable talking to people also spills into my own personal beliefs about myself. Although I have several strengths, it’s likely that I also acknowledge and accept my weaknesses. But unlike some people, I take full responsibility for my actions— I rarely regret things I’ve done in the past and is not embarrassed easily.
Perhaps the defining feature that sets me apart from most people is the exceptionally high standards that I set for myself. My competence in social gatherings as well as at work should provide ample evidence for this. With these characteristics, it’s very likely that people come to me for advice and generally think of me as someone with leader-like qualities.
As someone who respects family values, I tend to enjoy the company of family-members and is open to living a domestic life. Although I occasionally enjoy cooking at home, I also like going to restaurants.
On the other hand, I also like going to restaurants and parties. It’s possible that in time I might prefer spending time at home more because I won’t feel like I’m missing anything when I don’t go out.
One aspect of myself that makes me likely to become more family oriented is that I generally know how to manage my frustrations and work well on my own. This means that you have some of the basic ingredients to enjoy family life. Maintaining a tidy home, keeping a well-stocked kitchen.
The self-control personality dimension captures the way in which a person regulates and directs him or herself. Being low in self-control can be both good and bad. Occasionally people may be compelled to follow their intuitions and give in to their temptations, and my degree of self-control makes this likely to happen more often than not. This can be good in circumstances where being relaxed and open are important. However, in situations where it is necessary to be focused and careful, I might find that i do or say things that may be inappropriate.
As someone who exerts little control over my actions, I may find that you commit social blunders that might offend other people and get myself in trouble. For example, if I am given responsibility to work on a project that requires close attention to detail, I may be likely to overlook important details because I’ve difficulty staying focused. Consequently, I might feel more comfortable delegating such tasks to other people who are more detail oriented. Being able to recognize such characteristics in myself and having more detail-oriented people do such tasks could be an effective way to manage my own stress level.
Low self-control may diminish effectiveness at work. Acting too relaxed can make it difficult to focus on projects that require organized sequences of steps or stages. Thus, my ability to accomplish may be inconsistent. Indeed, it’s possible that I might be criticized periodically for being unreliable or unable to “stay within the lines.” Nonetheless, I may still experience many short-lived pleasures and never be thought of as boring.
As someone high in openness, I’ve a strong appreciation for beauty, both in art and nature. Indeed, it’s likely that I am easily absorbed in music and art, as well as natural phenomena. Another aspect of my openness is my emotional insight; that is, I probably have good access to and awareness of my own emotions.
Another aspect of the openness dimension is the tendency to think about abstract concepts and ideas. This thinking style may take the form of artistic and metaphorical use of language, and/or music composition or performance. Thus, it is likely that, either in my work or spare time, I enjoy activities that get my “creative juices” flowing.
My tendency to be open-minded can have advantages and disadvantages. For instance, when there are no clear rules about how to approach a particular problem, My openness makes it easier for me to identify new ways to solve problems that might not be very obvious to people that are not as open as I am. In contrast, I may be bored easily in situations that lack high amounts of intellectual stimulation. In such cases, I might have difficulty excelling on projects that do not provide much stimulation or require much creative thinking.
Easygoingness refers to one's ability to relax. Based on my score, I appear to “take things as they come” and enjoy having a good time. However, being high in easygoingness also has the potential to produce stress in a number of ways. For example, i may find it difficult to complete tasks thoroughly and efficiently. In this way, being high in easygoingness cannot only make your life difficult, but also the lives of the people around me. Another potential problem with being too high in easygoingness is that it can provide me with gratification in the short-term, but in the long-term provide undesirable consequences.
High easygoingness, even when not seriously destructive, may also diminish my effectiveness at work, for example. I may find it aversive and difficult to put in all the effort that may sometimes be needed to effectively accomplish certain tasks. For this reason, my colleagues might view me as forgetful and unfocused.
Given the strong degree of confidence that I have, it’s no surprise that I get along well with most people. Indeed, it’s self-confidence that allows people to feel comfortable interacting with others without feeling insecure and vulnerable. For this reason, I shouldn’t have much difficulty in romance, at least not initially. My social skills will likely help relieve any anxiety my romantic partners might have on those first few dates. However, over time, the high standards that I have for myself could potentially frustrate my partner.
Because i respect family values but appreciate a good night out on the town, I probably get along well with people that are different from me. For this reason, I would probably be quite content in a romantic relationship with someone who shares my same values on these issues. Being in a relationship with someone who enjoys going out to parties and staying-up late at night might be fun, at least initially; yet it’s likely that i will find this tiring over time. Thus, it might be easier and more satisfying for me to develop a long-lasting relationship with a person who enjoys both spending time at home and going out to eat.
As someone who is more relaxed than most people, I likely get along with most people quite well. Chances are that my friends and colleagues perceive me as lively, fun to be with, and good-humored.
First Date
Some nice restaurant downtown where we can share a moment which later become our past pleasant memory of life =)
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