I'm 40 & I like to think I'm smart (although some may disagree), confident, easy going, athletic, sometimes amusing (ie laugh at me), romantic and giving. I'm tired of bars and clubs, refuse to be set up (although everyone wants to try). I've never really had a problem meeting people on my own but this is something different and since I haven't met the right one yet I thought I'd give this a try. I'm old enough to know how to work but I definitely haven't forgotten how to play. So if you want someone who is spontaneous but somewhat responsible, sweet without being sappy, romantic without being a player, affectionate, honest and athletic then send me a message and tell me a bit about yourself and let's see if there's a spark - nothing to lose, right?

It's hard to say....I think the chemistry between us would dictate our first date.