I DESCRIBE MYSELF AS AN EASYGOING,OUTGOING AND A VERY PLAYFUL TYPE MAN.I WAS BORN IN ILLINOIS BUT I WAS RAISED IN ALABAMA ABOUT 80 MILES SOUTH OF ATLANTA.I ENTERED AND SERVED 23 YRS IN THE MILITARY.I AM A VERY ACTIVE MAN THAT DOES NOT LOOK OR FEEL HIS AGE.I AM VERY EASY TO TALK WITH AND BE WITH.I NOW REALIZE THAT ONE OF THE MAIN FACTORS NECESSARY TO BECOME BETTER ACQUAINTED WITH SOMEONE IS TO HAVE COMFORT BETWEEN YOURSELVES.I FEEL BOTH PERSONS HAVE AN EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY TO CREATE THIS COMFORT AND IN DOING SO ALLOWS FOR MORE OPEN AND EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION.THE RESULT OF THIS IS TO BECOME BETTER INFORMED ABOUT ONE ANOTHER AND THUS CREATING AN INTEREST IN WANTING TO INVEST MORE TIME AND THEN MEET FACE TO FACE.I AM WILLING TO DO THIS, ARE YOU?? RE LOCATING IS NOT AN ISSUE FOR ME.I WOULD LIKE TO LIVE IN A WARMER CLIMATE THAT ALLOWS FOR MORE OUTDOOR ACTIVITIES.IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO CONTACT ME DIRECTLY,I HAVE YAHOO INSTANT MESSENGER.MY SCREEN NAME IS THE SAME AS HERE DESSERTS69..I HAVE HAD SOME PEOPLE WANTING TO KNOW ABOUT MY SCREEN NAME:DESSERTS IS STRESSED SPELT BACKWARDS:AN ACTUAL BOOKTITLE.NOT WHAT YOU EXPECTED HUH.... NO I AM NOT STRESSED I JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A UNIQUE TITLE IS ALL. I WANT TO TALK WITH YOU ABOUT DISTANCE: IF WE MAKE A CONNECTION MENTALLY AFTER SEVERAL CONVERSATIONS,RE LOCATING IS NOT AN ISSUE. I AM WILLING TO RE LOCATE OR SOME OF YOU MAY WANT TO COME TO MY AREA WHERE THERE ARE BEACHES AND MANY THINGS TO DO. THIS TO ME IS PART OF THE COMMUNICATION PROCESS.

A first date is a continuation of the process that you has been created through open and hopefully effective communication.I know for some, meeting can be very stressful.I think both persons should have contributed to creating the comfort that when the actual meeting takes place it is very easy and exciting for both.I like to meet for lunch,I think this is sufficent time that both persons will know if any interest in more has developed.I also enjoy a walk along the beach when the weather is nice,go to a movie on a rainy day or perhaps just enjoy one anothers company with no plans at all.