Webster's Dictionary defines the word soul mate as-one of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity. My take on the word is that it states what it means. I look at it very close in my book... To get down to business, I am student/part time sports writer. I enjoy many things in life several listed on my inters. column on this site. I enjoy a wide range of things such as sports, travel, etc. I also enjoy extended and weekend road trips just exploring new scenes and so forth. At home which I just rencently purchased in June of this year, my focus is the creature comforts of a peaceful cozy home. I love outdoor BBQ, if the weather permits. Also I dont mind to do some cuddling on the couch if need be, to watch a movie or a game. I can have fun doing chores with the right woman. From what other people have told me is that I got an A+ in Manners and Ethics 101 and I try my best to behave like a gentleman at all times. I don't enjoy/do confrontations or head games with no woman. I get more than enough when I am in class and besides life's just to short for that anyway.

I’m going to level with you ladies... Do you even know what you want? So many of you write these sappy, tiny-violin playing, relationship self-help book type profiles, it makes me wonder if you’re living in the real world or in some fantasy land where a white (or black, or Asian, etc) knight on horseback is going to sweep you off your feet and deliver you to his kingdom where you’ll spend the rest of your lives living in a romance novel... Gazing into each other’s eyes and frolicking hand in hand through a garden with the glowing sun beaming down on you... Ever notice how the princess’ dress is always way too long and these guys never seem to take their suits of armor off in these stories?

I get it, you want “Tall, Dark and Handsome”... to go along with lots of laughing, cuddling and fun times(?). Then what? I’ll agree... it really is open season out here in POF land... You never have to settle for the first guy you meet because there are probably 3 or 4 “better” ones waiting to capture your heart the moment your original date ends. Pretty addictive huh? I’ll say! I’ve been out with a few women off this site who were so blatantly playing the POF field, I almost felt like I had to take a number for a second date. They didn’t know what they wanted and quite frankly, I don’t have the time or desire to find out if I’m in the running. To those women who just can’t make up their minds... I hope you enjoy growing old alone... Perfection doesn’t exist, but if you believe it does... good luck with that.


Ultimately, I am looking for a special lady to be my one and only, someone to share my life with as well. Someone who will be there 4 me, I would so do the same in return for you... If any of this sounds inters. to you then you know what to do......

WELL IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE LADY. BUT, ME I WOULD LIKE A QUITE BRUNCH, SOMEWERE LIKE A SIDEWALK CAFE OR STARBUCKS...MAYBE A STROLL THROUGH THE PARK OR WALKING TRIAL. DEPENDING ON THE WEATHER...HANGING OUT WATCHING T.V. AT EITHERS ONES PLACE...WHAT EVER COMES TO MIND......