Life is too short for drama & petty things, So...kiss slowly, laugh insanely, And love truly... This has become my lifes motto. Dont sweat the small stuff, we all have faults we simply need to know which ones we can and cant live with !!! Ok all you men out there have definitely put my little blurb to shame, so here goes! I am a very honest person, but dont believe in using honesty as an excuse to be mean. I believe a relationship is made up of the little things, a kiss on the cheek, a smile across a crowded room, maybe a little love note! Its making the person you are with truly believe there is no where else you would rather be. You get what you give guys, its that simple. I want someone who is willing to reciprocate what I give to a relationship. You will always get 125% until I feel that is not being returned. I need someone with a life ( I know sounds harsh) But I have a busy life, and cant stand whining! Dont get me wrong you will always be put first, but life does happen. My kids are at the top of the list as well, but I get creating a healthy balance between the two is key. I am financially stable and take care of my family, I am not looking for a "daddy" as a matter of fact my kids have a pretty good one. I love to laugh...so a sense of humor is essential, mine has a tendency to be a little sarcastic, but I am working on that. I want someone who I have common interests with, but also someone who may bring something new into my life. I love to learn so please fell free to challenge my brain! If you cant hold an intelligent conversation then we have nothing to talk about!! LOL! I am a caring, optimistic person and want the same in a partner, someone who is able to think outside themselves. I enjoy reading, hanging out with my AMAZING friends, going to movies, and trying to beat my boys at Guitar hero. I love the outdoors, camping and I am down for any new adventures! I REALLY can go from a tent to a 5 star restaurant. I really dont know what I expect from all this, but I love to meet people so please feel free to message me. I would love to pick your guys' brains to see what makes you guys tick (cause really, you think we are mysterious!?!?!) Good luck to everyone out there!

Thats simple any where that a conversation can be held! Nothing like an evening on a patio, music (not too loud), cold drinks!