Over-educated, well-traveled, cultured odd fellow seeks female counterpart. Vast financial reserves, expunged felonies and a twin sister are definite pluses, but are neither required nor expected. Absolutely needed are a sense of adventure, insatiable curiosity, some athleticism, a trained intellect, a strong spirit, the ability to cry at art, and a dose of hedonism. I’m running as fast as I can (no, not from the FBI) and need you to keep up, if not lead from time to time. I’m tall, professional, a homeowner, self-aware, and know how to listen. I love dogs, homemade cookies, slow dancing, single malts, early mornings and strong coffee, hope you understand.

There's a lot which occurs on a first date (ah, the pressure!), it's important to let those events occur. The locale and timing aren't important. I just try to keep the byplay in the air and watch where it goes. There's physical attraction (more than looks, but pheromones, grace, a twinkle), of course, but there's also listening to each other think, developing a sense of character and trustworthiness, finding a measurement of intelligence and wit, observing social skills, watching for kindness, generosity, openness, superficiality, depth, passion, cultural assumptions and role models, all of which is usually unspoken. It's an exciting time, a confusing time, a rewarding time.