I am a college graduate who followed a dream (and no, it wasn't going to/graduating from college), learned priceless lessons from it and just moved back into the area. It's a bit strange moving back to after being away for six years and realizing nothing is the same and you know nobody :-/ I would enjoy someone who can have and hold an intelligent conversation with me but also be a complete goofball with me.

I tend to be a bit fast-paced so I need someone who can balance me out whos personality complements who I am. I am NOT looking for someone who loves everything I do, agrees with everything I say/do, or someone who can't make decisions. My "better half" would be someone who challenges who I am in terms of questioning the 'why's' in life, someone who can listen and offer their true sentiments, not just agreement, and someone who wants to get to know me for me, and not for what I do in bed; if you expect to sleep with me in the near future, stop reading now and give up. Also, if you need to date several people at once, or need to be babysat, stop reading and good luck!

I like to try new things and love to get out, often with my dog. I am attracted to men who have a stable life, know how to treat a woman, live for the moment, have fun in any situation, and can make me laugh. I tend to run with an older crowd to avoid all the drama and immaturity of my peers, hence I date older men. If you are full of yourself, and only yourself, cheap, a$$hole-ish, a jerk, or think you can run every aspect of my life making it impossible for me to still be an independent person, don't waste your time messaging me. I hate drama and playing games; way too much effort and stress in a short life. I want to be successful and have fun without having a man to drag me down but rather heighten those experiences.

I like to have fun and try to enjoy the small things in life and take pride in whatever I am doing. I like a man who can understand that I can take care of myself but who can also be there for me. I have a crazy, do anything, shocking side which is tamed by a relaxing, creative, compassionate, and thoughtful side. Although I can be outspoken, I am very shy at first so message me if you like what you see. Other than that, have a wonderful time :-)

"I`m selfish, impatient, and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control, and at times hard to handle, but if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe

As long as we have fun, I'm open for it!