I am good, but not an angel, I do sin.. But I am not the devil.. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love.....

My children's friends all think I am a cool mom... So does my children, I admit it..oh yeah... Did I mention I am a mother-in-law? My 23 year old son just got married in June, 2008..... No, I am not a busy body mother-in-law. My son is happy that is all that matters to me... My daughter-in-law is a very wonderful girl.

I am very confident and secure on who I am - Probably helps that I keep getting told I look 25 and not 42.. Isn't that the best compliment?? :) I must be doing something right...

I want someone who is well grounded, secure in who he is, and likes to work out to stay in shape.. If I can do it.. so can you. Think about it, If fitness came in a bottle, everyone would have a great body, right?

I really do not want someone who is an arrogant idiot.. for if you think you might be.. or have been told you are, then please don't waste my time.... I have been there and done that and it is not an attractive trait in anyone... :)

I love to be challenged mentally, I love some mystery, for I shall give some to you too.. :)

I don't mind baggage just try to make it a carry-on. We all have it, be foolish to think otherwise...

Must be willing to keep up with me... and love that part about me.. I give more than I get... but that's ok, it is just who I am....

One more thing.. I have many pictures up to share with you.. Please, give me the pleasure of seeing you too.. seems so one sided otherwise... The excuse I haven't gotten a chance to do it yet..just seems so weak.. Don't hide, be proud of who you are ... :)

Please if you do not have any pictures to share with me then please do not contact me. Thank you! :-)

With that being said..I am sorry, but I do not want a man with "a few extra pounds" that is just not attractive to me.. That- I have noticed, can mean many things. to a few extra pounds to obese... That is just not a turn-on for me... I want someone to be able to keep up with me and make me proud when we walk into a room.... I am not crazy about facial hair.. I find a little goes a long way.. Of course, some facial hair is fine.. but full blown beards and moustaches is not my thing...Yes~ I do know what I like...

I would like to also add.. I have a lot of confidence and I will not settle for anything less that my heart's desire. Look out for me because I can make you fall to your knees if I so desire to do so. :)

I do not mind living in a mans world as long as I can be a woman in it.. :)

I still have my blonde moments for an example the other day I stopped in the middle of the road to let a pine cone cross the road. I thought it was a ground hog. :-)

THINGS I PONDER:
Can a woman over 35 wear short skirts and not look trashy?
Bangs or no bangs?
How many shoes does it take until you realize you have enough?
Can the wrong perfume leave a bad impression?
Would having enough summer dresses as to not repeat a dress the whole summer mean I have enough already?
When a bunny runs in front of me does this mean I am going to have 7 years of good luck?
What can I do with a past I can't get back? Move on? Pretend it never existed?
Does milk do a body good?

SUGGESTION: If you have to block people out of a picture of yourself to add to your profile.. I suggest don't do it.. If this is the best of the collection of pictures you have of yourself.. Ummmm Go Take More!! Nothing looks worse than to look upon a profile and see white boxes where a person was. Another thing. Cutting the people out of the picture is almost as bad.. My opinion. :-)

UPDATE: 06.28.09: As my son and daughter in law celebrate their first anniversary today I wonder... Where will I be a year from today? Will I be happy? Will I find that "one" or must I wander this earth alone. I know. deep, right? :-)

UPDATE: 09.05.09: On August 13,2009 I got the call no parent would ever want to get in the middle of the night. My youngest son was in a horrific accident that left his whole right side damaged and his face was crushed. He fell 33 ft from a 3rd Floor Balcony. It is going to take some time before he recovers and I need to concentrate on him and his recovery. So, in essence my life is on pause.

UPDATE: 11.19.09: On October 29th my son's doctor said he could start walking. He has to do physical therapy twice a week and to date... He is doing great!! He still tires easily but that is to be expected considering everything his body has gone through from the accident. We are on the road to recovery and it is looking great!!!! He is walking way ahead of schedule.. This is truly a miracle!!

Hmm.. Well we could shake hands first and foremost.. then we can go out to eat. chat.. Have an opportunity to see if there is "chemistry" I have been hearing that is an important element. :)