hi...i am not new on this site i've been here for awhile...i have changed my profile .....why did i change it because i am really ready to hopefully meet a very nice man to enjoy playing with now whereas before i was only half wanting to meet someone...also i was a little nervous because the men in my life so far have not turned out to be what i had hoped for....which was honest!!!! trusting!!!! loyal!!! and a few manners...if it were not for the one thing that i absolutely enjoy doing with a man i think i would probably just get a pet...but pets being one of the only things i don't enjoy doing that with it just won't work.....also it's not that i am shy but for some reason i have a hard time
getting myself to respond the first time...so it's not because i don't want to it's just i'm a little slower than most

for a " first date " the man needs to take the intiative on his own after communicating[phone or pof ]a couple of times with me and plan the date by himself...it answers alot of questions for me about him..