A mixed breed of Dutch & Indonesian - Olive skin with European features. I am fun, playful, warm, kind-hearted, genuine, and easy going with a great amount of passion for whatever I do; work, interests, or intimacy. Worldly, educated, professional - I have some sophistication

I am very physically affectionate, touching, caressing. I love holding hands (while sleeping too) - hugs - long and slow kisses that fuels passion and can touch each other’s soul so incredibly. I value communication and verbal intimacy in a relationship. I like to think I have the perfect balance of naughty & nice.
I love to laugh, smile and make others do the same. I tend to seize the moment as life is so precious and short - Carpe Diem! When I meet someone I may proceed with caution, or I may fall passionately in love or at least lust quickly, spontaneously and with total abandon. Holding something back for later is a something I just can’t fathom especially when it comes to the joy of creating a new and exciting relationship.
I love to travel; annual trips to Hawai'i, Europe, (planned or not) day & road trips. I can have fun doing whatever outdoors and be content at home with Ms Right - A DVD, cuddle, and a working pause button. I don't get angry or mad (not worth it) I just get disappointed in someone. I learn from my mistakes and move forward. Not a couch potato - enjoy live music, jazz, dancing, wine and dine, golf addict, and get my cardio up at the gym.
My work is very important to me but I am not consumed by it. Professionals and friends will tell you I am a man of integrity, honest, have a good heart, happy with a zest for life. I have a great sense of humor and pretty funny but they do tell me to keep my day job

As for my religion - He carries me everyday. Some days I am just heavier in his arms.
I love kids but unfortunately, I do not have any. But that does not mean I can not at the very least be a good friend to yours.
Some of my favorite things: I love jazz - concerts & festivals. road trips (planned or spontaneous), global travel, cultures, wine tasting, museums, theater, star gazing, Laguna walks. My heart belongs to Hawai'i. Cities: London, Paris, Amsterdam, Brussels, Tokyo, Toronto, New York, Beijing. Like Duke’s, Javier’s, El Matador, Spaghettini for the food and jazz, Turkish Kitchen (NY), Amsterdam - best Indonesian rice table (rijsttafel). Lakers fan for life. Go USC!

-- he's a Trojan

. I love Angels baseball!! The few times it rains here, I am out splashing in it!
"Let's groove tonight"

(transitions to) "We will, we will rock you!"
All I Ask Of YouNo more talk of darkness, forget these wide eyed fears,
I’m here, nothing can harm you,
My words will warm and calm you.
Let me be your freedom, let daylight dry your tears,
I’m here, with you, beside you,
To guard you and to guide you.
Say you love me every waking moment,
Turn my head with talk of summertime,
Say you need me with you now and always,
Promise me, that all you say is true,
That’s all I ask of you.
Let me be your shelter, let me be your light,
You’re safe, no one will find you,
Your fears are far behind you.
All we need is freedom, a world that’s warm and bright
And you, always beside me,
To hold me and to hide me.
Say you’ll share with me one love, one lifetime,
Let me lead you from your solitude,
Say you need me with you here beside you,
Anywhere, you go let me go too,
That’s all I ask of you.
Say the word and I will follow you,
Share each day with me each night each morning,
Say you feel the way I do,
That’s all I ask of you.
Anywhere you go let me go too,
Love me, that’s all I ask of you.